Dear friends,
I need to take a break for a couple of days. I’m too overwhelmed to write a coherent post and I’m just plain exhausted.
I do have serious doubts about the legitimacy of this election. The numbers do not add up. I’ve been reading a lot about that and I am definitely not the only person who feels this way. Something is off.
But this morning, I just feel wiped out. So does Don.
I had to block another reader the other day and I suspect that will happen again. There is no welcome mat out for anyone who supports him.
Even in my little Blythe world, I’ve been shocked to learn that some doll lovers support him. They’ve been unfollowed.
It’s a moral issue.
I’m going to try to get back to We Solve Murders again.
Feel free to share your thoughts here. You know that I will always keep this space safe. And even though I’m taking a break today and tomorrow, I will answer comments.
Love to you all.
Richard Osmun is good medicine for these times. He, Louise Penny and another author I didn’t know did NPR’s 1-A show last week on mystery writing, their characters and all. It’s a good listen and a break for all things political. Most of the bloggers I read are either like-minded or at least on blog, apolitical. But one — her posts really distress me. While she is a creative and I have enjoyed following those posts, I think I need to give her a rest, maybe for always. I wouldn’t mind her having an opinion but I can tell that it is based on misinformation, “fake news” from the Trump camp. I can’t go there right now. So, I’ll just keep doing my posts about England (and wish that I’d stayed! They aren’t without their problems but at least their leader is sane.)
I wish we could move to Canada, where my mom was born. Well, we could, but it would be too difficult to do that now.
Hang in there, Jeanie.
Dear Claudia, thank you for your comments. I, too, feel something is off.
I’m glad for you and your kind group. I’m sitting on a little Lisbon patio drinking wine and reading. So glad for another couple weeks away from home to slowly put thoughts in order. My husband and I need quiet time now too. You said it….a moral issue. I’m privileged to be here with quiet time to think and have time away from the friends I may be distancing myself from upon returning because of that moral problem. Take care of yourself….read, watch birds, walk your beautiful yard and hug that Don! Verna
Thank you, Verna. I have had to distance myself from some friends/acquaintances who support him. I cannot have them in my life.
Hang in there, Verna.
Yes, I find myself …..withdrawing, maybe? I really don’t want to grow a shell, however, so I will be keeping a watchful eye out for anything along those lines. Best wishes.
And also yes, it is shocking to discover some acquaintance (on line or what ever) is so lacking in sense or decency….again, time for me to withdraw.
Ceci
Time to withdraw, Ceci. Protect yourself.
Hang in there.
Take care of yourself, Claudia. I’ve was numb at first and now so many feelings of despair, sadness and anger. So worried for our marginalized citizens and my own daughters. Trying to limit my news intake and talk with my husband and friends. I appreciate that this is a safe space.
It is, Rachel. And I will keep it that way.
Hang in there.
That’s exactly what I felt, too, Claudia, something is off. Notice Trump is no longer saying the election is rigged? Well, maybe it was??? I understand you needing to take a break and keeping your blog free of Trumpeters. We’ll miss you but we completely understand. Take care of each other. Hugs, Elaine
I’ll most likely be back on Monday, Elaine.
Hang in there.
you will be missed, but i’m glad you are doing what you need to do for your own sake, that you take all the time you need and do what’s best for you. i hope don and everyone else does, too.
will be here whenever you get back.
sending hugs out and prayers up for all.
kathy
Hugs and prayers for all of us and for our country.
Hang in there, Kathy.
We have lived through many awful presidents, Claudia, and we will figure out how to live through this disgusting one. Take a break, take a walk, enjoy the beautiful nature around you. We will see you again when you have rested and feel ready. Take care and stay safe!
Ellen
We’ve never lived through one like Trump. You could gather all of the other awful presidents together and they still wouldn’t come close to his depravity.
Hang in there, Ellen.
You are appreciated!
Thank you so much, Mary Ellen.
Hang in there.
It’s just horrible. I can’t even wrap my head around how so many people could care less about so many issues. My dad used to listen to talk shows of opposing political views and I remember him saying that the Republicans were just not very nice people. I am happy he is not here to see this. I don’t understand so called “Christians” . I am pretty certain Jesus would be disappointed in the results also. I try not to be so vocal but I am crushed.
Your dad, my dear Uncle, was right. I’m so happy my dad isn’t here to see this either. He enlisted in WWII to fight facism. He would be devastated by this.
Be as vocal as you want, Eileen. You can speak freely here, dear cousin.
Love you.
I continue to feel so sad and shocked/horrified. These events are the first thing I think of in the morning and last at night.. Pretty much all day.
I let my membership to the ACLU expire but I am renewing it as soon as possible. I don’t know what else to do.
Take Care,
Kaye
I am going to renew my membership, too. I’ve been getting emails from them since the election and we have to support them.
Hang in there, Kaye.
Claudia, I feel the same as you…and taking some space is a smart thing to do. Your photo actually gives me some metaphorical hope…it does appear dark and shady, but there’s a sunny path in the middle of it. Things aren’t going to be so easy, but I have to believe we will all get though this. I’m going to do some reading, too, but I find I’m wandering off more than usual. Take care.
Yes, I am too. It’s hard to concentrate, isn’t it?
Hang in there, Barrie.
I don’t know if I trust the election results either. I’m sure there will be no way to prove it though.
I am exhausted too. I went to bed early last night. The sun is shining this morning and life goes on. I am going to focus on family and the holidays for the next couple months. Then we will need to buckle up…things are going to get rough.
Take care
Yes, at least let us have Christmas, right?
Hang in there, Marilyn.
I understand you taking a break but will miss your post tomorrow. I too have had to break ties, even from some family members (if only temporarily). My entire family are Republicans who voted for that awful man. Perhaps in four years, if we still live in a democracy, we can try again. Take Care, Jan
Thank you, Jan.
Hang in there.
After reading how devastated you and your followers are why would anyone comment their support for him. People are so insensitive! I’ve been thinking and praying for peace for you Claudia.
It will all be fine. I promise.
In my experience, MAGAts have no sensitivity. You wouldn’t believe the comments I have had – not only disagreeing with me, but attacking me and my husband. They’re classless and cruel.
Hang in there, Darlene.
I feel that there is something hinky about the election…the numbers don’t add up. I’m hopeful that sharper minds than mine are looking into that.
Take all the time you need. This has been an extreme shock to my system…to my whole family as well. So it’s time for my husband and I to batten down the hatches in preparation for what I hope will not come.
Keep reading….i’m trying to find diversions, and talking to friends. Friends who share the same morals as I do. So important these days. ;)
Very important, Donnamae.
Hang in there.
I’m so sorry for what has happened in your country. I just don’t understand and I immediately thought it doesn’t all add up. I would love to think that someone, somewhere would check that all is in order but I am fearful that it won’t happen. It is a terrifying time for you all and the rest of the world too.
Taking a break is a wise move. I’ve stopped watching and reading the news, it’s all too much. Be kind to yourself and enjoy your beautiful home and lovely husband. Take care.
Thank you, Fiona.
Much love.