
Some vintage celluloid reindeer are visiting the Lake House.
I wonder – will anyone let them in?
Temperatures are going to be in the 40s for the next 3 days – a definite warmup – with a lot of rain falling on Friday. I suspect that most of the snow will be gone at the end of that day. I do see some new snow in the forecast for next Tuesday and on Christmas day. I would love to see snow falling on Christmas day. Our local weather guys confirmed what both Don and I knew – this is the coldest December in over 10 years. It’s like we jumped to mid-February at the beginning of December. Very, very cold and lots of snow this year. And it’s not even Winter yet – at least, officially.
We’ve been staying close to home, still reeling from the brutal murder of Rob Reiner and his wife, Michele, by their son. This, just a week after Jubilant Sykes was murdered by his son. How awful it must be for any parent or sibling to live with a family member who is dealing with addiction and serious mental health challenges. Did the Reiners ever worry about their physical safety? Did Jubilant worry? When do you make the decision that that person is a danger to others, especially when it’s your child? And if that person is legally an adult, how much can you really do? It’s just awful. Gut wrenching,
I know how challenging it was to live with my father’s alcoholism. In that case, the worry was that he might take his own life. He certainly threatened to on many occasions. But even though he had a volatile temper, I never felt that he would harm any of us.
My heart aches for the surviving Reiner children, and the Sykes children.
Don and I search for some moments of comfort: in the beauty of our Christmas tree, in a piece of pumpkin pie, in an old movie, in conversations where we try to make sense of the senseless.
“The world is too much with us.” (Wordsworth)
I speak those words often, increasingly so since January of this year.
Sorry to be serious today and not “Merry, Merry Christmas!” There’s a time and a place. I’ll try to take some photos later today of a cheery nature.
Stay safe.
Happy Wednesday.




