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Gathering in NYC

November 13, 2016 at 10:01 am by Claudia

I had planned on telling the horse story today, thinking that it was time to write about something inspiring, but there were so may requests for details on yesterday’s protest in NYC that it became clear that I should share a few photos from the day. A day that was also inspiring. (I took some and Don took a whole heck of a lot more, because he loves doing that and my phone’s battery was losing its charge.) By the way, he missed his calling. He should be a photojournalist because he has such a great eye. Extraordinary pictures.

We took the train into NY because the train arrives at Grand Central, where we could take the subway directly to Union Square, the staging area. Union Square is on 14th Street. We gathered under a statue of Abraham Lincoln.

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As we stood there, more and more and more people arrived. News cameras were everywhere. We started the first of many, many conversations with fellow marchers – conversations that would continue throughout the day.

One woman touched our hearts.  She was elderly, very petite, and wearing purple, including a purple beret. As we started to talk to her, she started crying. She was born in France, you see. Her parents lived through the horrors of World War II. She was a very small child during the war. This election and the rhetoric being spewed, she said, reminded her of that time. She was so lovely. She told us that she has four children who live all over the world and they are also protesting. We took pictures of her and emailed them to her last night after we got home.

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I don’t want to show you her face because I didn’t ask permission. But there she is, walking just ahead of us. She was my inspiration yesterday, as was my nephew. (That’s the Empire State Building on the left.)

Around 1:30, we made the turn onto Fifth Avenue and 17th Street and we began the march up Fifth Avenue to our eventual destination: Trump Tower at 56th and Fifth Avenue. We were near the first column of marchers and we had no idea how many people were behind us. It wasn’t until we were around 48th Street or so, where there was a slight rise in the road, that we could look back and see the sea of people following us. Thousands and thousands. It took my breath away.

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The marchers stretched out for several blocks, as far as the eye could see.

The crowd was comprised of every age; from the elderly walking with canes, to toddlers being pushed in strollers. Every ethnicity. Every sexual orientation. We wore safety pins that had been passed out to us in Union Square. Everyone was polite, gregarious, and focused.

Someone implied yesterday in the comments that the marchers would be limited to the young. That they would use bad language. Basically, a lot of assumptions based on…what? I don’t know. That couldn’t have been further from the truth. I was surrounded by all ages; everyone kind, everyone passionate, everyone – to a person – lovely and friendly. Love was everywhere. That only the young feel passionately enough about issues to march is ridiculous. Or that there is some sort of unspoken ‘you don’t belong here’ coming from them? – completely ridiculous. I cannot tell you how many conversations I had with people of all ages. It was inspiring.

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And there was Michael Moore. He had either just done his Facebook Live or was about to do it. We didn’t know about that at the time because we were marching. But I found out about it when I got home. A Michigander, I might add, so I’m doubly proud of him.

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If you are worried that millennials aren’t engaged enough in the election and the political process, let me assure you, they are. I was heartened and encouraged by their passion and I saw it everywhere yesterday. They will make their mark in the future. They’re starting now.

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All in all, we walked about 40 blocks until we arrived at the intersection of 56th and Fifth. That tall building is Trump Tower. Believe me, we were heard. I could see workers in the luxury stores on Fifth Avenue standing at the window and applauding us. Double decker tour buses full of tourists cheered us. It was inspiring. People were stopped along the sidewalks taking pictures and applauding.

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The march was peaceful. It had been organized as a peaceful march and everyone respected that. I never felt unsafe. Not for a minute. In fact, it was a community, a community gathered together to make their voices heard. One of the chants yesterday: “This is what democracy looks like.”

The police were polite and professional and we thanked them for their service whenever we had the opportunity.

It was the most inspiring day. We were also exhausted at the end of the day! But it was worth it. We edged our way out of the crowd around 4:00 because we were lucky to be where right at the intersection of 56th and Fifth and thought more marchers should get a chance to see what was happening there. We walked back down Fifth Avenue so we could witness the size of the crowd.

Wow.

Then we found our way back to Grand Central Station and headed for the train.

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That’s me.

When I arrived home I learned that a family member of a close friend of mine was subject to a hate crime yesterday. And I heard the anguish and fear in my friend’s voice on social media.

So I’ll continue to march and, more importantly, take action.

That was my day yesterday. Thanks to Don for urging me to get off my butt yesterday morning and go to Manhattan. I was the one who originally told him about it, but I was tired and not awake and I needed his energy to get me going. It was worth it.

Tomorrow: The horse story. It will leave you feeling good about those who protect and help our animal friends.

Happy Sunday.

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On The March

November 12, 2016 at 8:08 am by Claudia

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Today’s post will be rather brief, my friends. We’ve decided to head into Manhattan to take part in a protest march. Peaceful, of course – we wouldn’t do it any other way. It starts in Union Square with speeches and then moves up Fifth Avenue to (That Man’s) Tower.

It will be a long day, which seems very daunting to me at the moment, as I’ve just been out of bed for about a half hour. But worth it, I think. When I think of our current President’s legacy that is now in grave danger, I must speak out in support of him.

I’ll take pictures, of course.

A note: I’m going to be 64 years old in 9 days. I’ve always been someone who speaks out and fights for the underdog. I came of age during the Vietnam War and the Civil Rights movement – a time of protests. If I didn’t speak out now, I would be very disappointed in myself.

Do I need to say it again? This blog = a journal about my life = the good, bad, pretty, happy, sad, and what I believe in. If you want just nice posts and pretty pictures, you’ll indeed get that 98% of the time, but not always. You are welcome to move on if that doesn’t suit you. I don’t really need to hear about it but if that makes you feel better, okay.

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There’s a pretty picture for you!

I have a horse story to share with you soon, either tomorrow or Monday.

Remember the Nancy Drew giveaway! (Scroll back two posts and leave a comment.)

Happy Saturday.

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It Isn’t Okay

October 18, 2016 at 10:50 am by Claudia

I did lots of raking yesterday and I’m pooped today. Ah, the joys of autumn. And, by the way, it’s going to be 81 degrees today and yet we had two frosts a week ago and all my vines and zinnias are dead. What’s wrong with this picture?

I love autumn, but I often get into a funk this time of year. The seasonal change leaves me feeling a little melancholy. Add to that an election campaign that has sunk to lows that are slimier than I would have ever believed possible and yours truly has had it.

Oh, and our taxes were filed yesterday (we always file an extension) and we owe a big chunk of money. Whoo hoo! It’s a wonder I’m not dancing on the rooftop!

Now to the heart of this post: Ever since the ‘off mic’ tape was aired, I’ve been wrestling with my own memories and those of others who are close to me. It’s generated a lot of discussion with my husband and my sister and other friends – some of it here on this blog.

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Do you remember this sign from last week’s post about our anniversary?

It’s had more likes than any other post I’ve done on Instagram. I find that heartening. One of the more alarming realizations during this campaign is that there are people that don’t seem to think touching someone without permission is a big deal. Or think it’s something ‘guys do.’ Or say that it’s okay because it’s ‘locker room talk’. Never mind the fact that most men I know assure me that men do not talk that way in locker rooms, saying that about it is an attempt to brush it aside as something inconsequential. It isn’t.

I’ve heard people say that we’re getting upset about a word (you know what it is). Again, trying to minimize it. No, we’re upset about an action, not a word, as distasteful as that word is.

This isn’t political. It’s about basic decency. No one should be able to grab or grope or touch or kiss a woman without consent. Period. Or, I am reminded, a man.

Men, boys; whether you’re rich, poor, entitled, middle-class, handsome, not-so-handsome, charming, not-so charming, a boss, an employee, a relative, or someone who holds power of some kind: You don’t have that right.

I’ve been groped without my permission. I’ve been kissed without my permission. I’ve been touched without my permission. I’ve had men press up against me on the subway. I’ve had bosses say inappropriate things to me, things they never should have said. I’ve been in a darkened movie theater where a man sat down next to me and proceeded pull out his penis and masturbate. That occurred in graduate school and in true Claudia fashion, after a day or two had passed I told the story to my friends and transformed it into a darkly humorous monologue.

Because I’m funny and I know how to entertain a crowd.

That’s the way I dealt with it.

But it isn’t a joke. Make no mistake, it was an assault. I can still visualize it to this day, over 30 years later.

I still remember someone grabbing my breasts without my permission.

None of this is as horrendous as rape, and thankfully, I haven’t been subjected to that experience. But all of it is  sexual assault and it leaves a scar and it’s wrong. The assumption that someone has the ‘right’ to do that to anyone is horribly wrong. And because it isn’t rape, many people (men and  women, sadly) try to write it off as something women should just ‘get over’ because it isn’t such a big deal.

You know what? When a woman reports something like this, it should be taken seriously. And when several women come forward, all of them reporting much the same modus operandi? They aren’t doing it for ‘fame’ as I’ve heard several people assert. Are you kidding me? Who in their right mind would welcome the shaming and derogatory remarks that are being directed toward them – to cheering audiences, I might add?  The smearing, over and over and over again? It’s all a part of an attack to lessen them, to say that their experiences have no merit, no validity. To take their bravery and whittle it down to ‘fifteen minutes of fame.’

I’ll say it again: This isn’t political. This holds true for anyone, anywhere, anytime.

That we’re having a dialogue about this is a good thing. That we even have to have this dialogue in 2016 is sad beyond belief. Much work needs to be done.

It is the perfect opportunity to educate men and boys and women and girls about what is right and what is wrong, and I imagine there are a lot of conversations going on about just that. A positive in the midst of a negative. So, we speak out against the negative and turn it into an opportunity for growth and awareness.

But, oh how sad and troubling this is.

Time to turn things around so that this doesn’t happen again.

Happy Tuesday.

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