I’m thinking out loud here. Bear with me.
Though I’m sure I have a more than a bit of it in me, I’m not a super competitive person. When I recognize it rearing its ugly head, I feel uncomfortable. It’s not me. I don’t like what it brings out in me. I know there is a healthy form of competitiveness and, to a certain extent, it drives us to do better, to be better. When I used to audition for acting roles, which is all about competition, I was excited and triumphant if I was cast in the part. But usually, I didn’t see my fellow auditioners, so I was only in competition with myself, if that makes sense. I did the best I could and hoped it was enough.
Blogging has changed a great deal since I first started this blog over five years ago. What used to be a more intimate community of people sharing thoughts and ideas is now a much more competitive arena. Everyone is trying to get sponsors, ad income, affiliate links, big stats numbers. Everywhere I turn there is advice as to how to grow your blog. I have benefited from some of that advice in the past. But now it’s all about numbers. How many visitors come to your blog, how long they stay, what other sites refer visitors to your blog, are you on google+ because you must be on google+, do the big bloggers consider you part of their pack, how much ad income do you generate, how many comments do you get, what’s your google ranking – the list is endless.
And exhausting.
I’ve fallen prey to it in the past. I have to be honest about that. I took on ads because I needed the additional income. That income is very, very, very modest. I wanted bigger numbers because bigger numbers meant more ad income. I started posting every day because of it. (I’m glad I made that change – it’s a good discipline for me.) I looked at other blogs and wondered why they had such huge numbers. I still do. I felt a bit of resentment about the opportunities that seemed to come to younger bloggers and mommy bloggers but not to ‘seasoned bloggers’ as I call myself. I analyzed, assessed, compared and obsessed.
Then I turned a corner. The sheer abundance of blogs out there left me feeling overwhelmed. And underwhelmed by lots of repetitive content. I saw blogs that I used to really enjoy for their personal, heartwarming content change into what might as well be called websites, for want of a better word. Every post became a tout for their business. I’ve stopped reading them. I’ve watched other bloggers try to come up with a new project, a new idea, all the time – and it was too much. I was exhausted for them. After seeing the first few blog posts about chevrons and pallets and grain sacks and horizontal stripes on walls, my eyes glazed over. How many times can you reinvent the wheel? The need to keep up, to find something someone else hasn’t blogged about, to generate constant new projects to keep stat numbers high – Oy. I know that lots of bloggers want to generate a healthy income from their blogs. I totally understand that. And many bloggers are perfectly content in that business-like, competitive atmosphere; indeed, even thrive in it. More power to them. I really mean that.
I don’t.
There, I’ve admitted it. I simply don’t thrive in a competitive atmosphere. I don’t want to. That’s part of the reason I left acting behind and became a teacher and coach.
That little fact doesn’t make me better, or worse, than anybody else. I’m not. I’m not condemning anyone. I’m just speaking about a change that has happened to me, in reference to this little blogging world of mine. Listen, let’s be totally honest here. I’d love to generate more ad income than I do. I’d love to get a book deal. I’m a good writer – I’m proud of my writing. I’d love to be considered a top blogger. I’m just like anybody else. I’ve worked hard over the past 5 years to create a place on the web that I’m proud of. I worked very hard on this blog’s design. The quality of my photography and my content is very, very important to me. But all of that is to please my aesthetic, to keep this blog at a level that I can be proud of and that enables me to connect to you in a meaningful way. Sometimes I fail. Most of the time, writing this blog makes me very happy. And that, my friends, is what is important to me; not numbers, not stats, not the latest way to get my blog out there, whether it be Pinterest or Facebook or Instagram or whatever – not any of it. Yes, I appreciate the extra income, and would I like more of it? Of course. In the end, however, it’s all about joy. And I don’t get joy from numbers (which might be the reason we file an extension every year with the IRS.) Numbers don’t do it for me. Numbers take away the heart and soul of what I do.
I am withdrawing from all that. I no longer read my stats. I no longer read all the articles about growing your blog. I don’t really care what my Google ranking is and you can’t make me care, so there.
The blog isn’t changing. My priorities about what is important for this blog have been clarified and strengthened. You are important to me. The quality of my content is important to me, but not because of a competition. Because of me. Because of you.
It’s awfully freeing.
Happy Wednesday.
No wonder, we ALL LOVE YOU so much,Claudia! We care so much about you too. You have changed my life! I don’t mean that to sound trite it is true on so many levels hip-hip-hooray for Mockingbirdhill Cottage, and our Host! -Judy A-
Thank you, dear Judy.
I come to your blog every day to start my day! You, Don and Scout are like friends never met. You make me smile, cry and think. Enough of chevron stripes, white rooms, etc. Whatever you are doing, keep up the good work. See you tomorrow.
See you then, Dottie!
You ARE a top blogger in my book, Claudia. I enjoy your blog because it’s personal and offers us a little slice of your life. That’s what I enjoy and I’ve stopped visiting many blogs that have become too commercial for my taste. Just my opinion. Keep doing what you do so well.
I sure plan to, Deb!
Amen Sista! When I first started blogging, it was just for my business. I was never a writer and was petrified about doing it. It’s been three years now and I enjoy blogging…after I decided to forget the stats! The challenge of sharing information (i’m super private) was daunting at first. Again, I do enjoy it now. I don’t have tons of how to’s with pictures of every step. Chevron is a place where I fill my tank with gas and yes, I do have an item in my house that I made out of a pallet (a gift for my hubby) but I never posted a shot of it and don’t intend to. Thank you so much for your beautiful blog and your completely honest post. You may be surprised how many other bloggers agree with you! Wags, Niki
Chevron is a place I used to buy gas when I lived in California, Niki! Thank so much for your comment.
This is why I love visiting . You have managed to strike the perfect balance between the personal, lovely blogs that I adore with the commercial/ad revenue making blogs that I avoid like the plague.
Keep doing what you do so well Claudia! It is appreciated!!! :)
Thank you, Debbie. Good to know that it seems to be a good balance. That’s what I’m aiming for.
Dear sweet friejnd,
Thank you for stating what I also feel. I have stopped reading blogs because of the many adds. Of course, yours is the first on my list to read after housework is completed:) When I reached a certain age, suddenly it dawned on me that competition has a place, but not in my life anymore. Sending love and sunshine from middle TN.
Reaching a certain age is very liberating, isn’t it, Carol?
Dear Claudia,
I am on downstairs computer because the tablet froze. Forgive errors…cannot see, but I can spell FRIENDS!
Precisely why I’m here every morning, Claudia.
Thank you, Shanna.
Thanks for being who you are. I love your blog, love following your adventures, your honesty and your projects. I have just recently cleaned out all the blogs that started out the same way but then turned into giant ads for their sponsors. If I wanted to buy something I would go to the store. Thanks for staying true to yourself. I enjoy your blog with coffee every morning. Cindy
Thank you, Cindy. I occasionally have the sponsored post for BlogHer, but that doesn’t happen too often.
Claudia, thanks for sharing your life with us and for always keeping it real… Love, love your blog – you are my first click in the morning.. I stopped visiting a lot of blogs because they don’t speak to me like yours does… Thanks for making this about life and what you really enjoy because it does show through with your writing and photos (I love the dogwood flower picture above…). Have a good day, Claudia!! Francine
Isn’t that dogwood gorgeous, Francine? It was in the cemetery that I wrote about last week.
Claudia, I look forward to reading your blog everyday because your writing is authentic and true. Your blog embraces and holds steady to the original spirit of blogging. I respect that and find it very refreshing!
Thank you very much, Gina.
Your blog gives me joy. I feel like you, and Don and Scout are neighbors. I love when you share the rooms in your house, because they are similar to mine. Not a chevron or stripe to jump out and attack. “Use it up or do without”. Too much stuff isn’t necessarily a good thing, but watch, and wait, and then get good stuff that will last as it is used. I am truly amazed and rather horrified by the bloggers who talk about getting all new Christmas ornaments every year and then throw or donate them all after the season because they will get all new ones next year again. We have been married 40 years and I still have ornaments from our first Christmas plus some from both of our families dating back much before that. And I use them every year! I treasure them. Also tired of the “Mommy blogs” where their 5 kids are running all over the house dumping food and having tantrums, but they are smiling because “these days are days to treasure.” Oh, my! Can’t WAIT to hear what that house is like when they are all teens being told how perfect they are.
WOW~!!~ Guess I had some stuff inside that needed to come out!!!! :-)
JOYFUL is how I describe your blog and I am so happy every day when I see Mockingbird Hill Cottage in my email. I am glad you do your blog your way and hope that never changes. Thank you!!
I think we all have our preferences for the type of blogs we enjoy – and it gets more finely tuned as we see what’s out there. I will never be one to run out and buy things so that I can create a vignette or redo a room that is perfectly fine the way it is – all for blog fodder. Not for me!
Thank you so much for your comment, Chris.
I cannot improve on the above comments from your readers. Your blog is so enjoyed and , a day without you is a
day without sunshine.
Aw, thank you so much, Lea. That makes me very happy, indeed.
Claudia,
I love your blog just the way it is. When I am busy, and don’t have time to read all of the blogs I receive by email, I always keep yours to read. Your blog is real, not magazine staged. Keep it just the way it is.
Thank you so much, Mary Ann.
Hi Claudia,
I love your blog because you share things that interest me! I don’t read a lot of blogs anymore because they seem so cookie cutter to me. Believe me my house would be a disaster if I tried the all white thing! I love my dogs to much to be so picky! You and I have a lot in common but are different enough to make if fun.
Please just keep up with what you are doing
Suzan
Doxie mom from Ladybug Cottage
I will. I have a white slipcover on my blogging chair and believe me, forget the dog, I spill stuff on it all the time. And it stains. I don’t know what all those white furniture bloggers are using – I only know my slipcover gets stains.
I just started blogging at the end of last May and I still have not created anything with burlap or drop cloths :)
Debra just tickled my funny bone with the burlap and drop cloths comment. I come here to read about what’s going on in your life. I love your posts about your home, sewing, needlework, and the garden. I’ve enjoyed learning about your job and how you make a home away from home bearable for extended stays. I haven’t been reading your blog for too long, but it’s about time I left a comment of appreciation for the time it takes you to share with us.
Thanks!
Thank you so much Patricia. That means a great deal to me.
What is it with the scratchy burlap and the drop cloths? I bought some burlap once and it made me sneeze. Gave it away. I’m simply not buying drop cloths. Don’t see the point.
Brenda
Totally agree.
Brenda, you made me laugh! Trying not to lol because I’m at work! -Judy A-
LOL! Ditto! :)
Bravo, Debra! You are a role model for the rest of us.xo
Thank you!! That’s why you are one of my favorites. Every morning I look forward to what you have to say and what you are up to. Even though we’ll never meet I consider you, Don and Scout as friends.
I consider you my friend as well, Kathy.
Hi Claudia,
Yours is the only blog I read with daily posts and lots of ads. As another reader wrote, I enjoy reading about the little slice of your life that you share here. I’ve tried doing LOTS of the recommendations for growing a blog that you mentioned here, and I ended up exhausted! Worst of all, the fun (or “joy,” as you put it) was starting to slip away. Now I just do what I do for fun. If I have an idea for a new photo story/3-D animation piece, and it sounds like fun, I do it! If I’m interested in a hot blogging topic, and writing about it sounds fun, I write about it! Blogging has really changed over the last few years. Some people consider it into just a tool for making money. I’m more of a purist. Yes, I mention that there are new greeting cards in my card line or miniatures in my Etsy shop, but not very often. My blog is more about sharing creativity and building community, and I’m thrilled with what I’ve gained in both arenas. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this topic. I’m sure most bloggers struggle with the issues you’ve mentioned. I know I have! :-) xo Jennifer
Oh, I hope there aren’t too many ads, Jennifer. I try to keep them discreet, although the BlogHer ads are right at the top – that’s a requirement from BlogHer. They have to be above the fold.
As to all the recommendations for growing a blog, I totally agree with you. If fulfilling all those things gives you a headache and takes the joy right out of the process, it’s not worth it. I love the things you share on your blog and I know the rest of your readers do, too.
Dear Claudia,
I regularly read only three blogs now, including yours. These are ones that have meaning for me and make me think in a new way. When I started my blog about building a green house 3.5 years ago, my sole purpose was to provide some help for other homeowner-builders, in a truly practical way, including actual costs to build this way. I didn’t want to have ads that slow down page loading. Like you, I’m not comfortable with being competitive.
This whole blogging phenomenon has been interesting to watch. What started as a way to share pictures of one’s baby or trips or projects with close friends and family has become a major business. Suddenly everyone is an expert, even if we’ve only done something once (I’m guilty of posting how-to’s for this whole project, just like a “real” expert!)
How can a blogger present unique and interesting material? Get off the bandwagon, and write like Claudia of Mockingbird Hill Cottage.
You’re so right, Gail – suddenly everyone is an expert! Perfectly stated. That is such an interesting phenomenon. I often wonder what makes certain bloggers consider themselves experts. There’s nothing wrong with posting how-tos, why not? But that’s different than coming from the role of being an expert! I don’t know many people who are experts at anything.
Thank you for your comment, Gail.
I am reading a day late Claudia. Again you pull thoughts together for me/so many of us. Gail does too (very dear sister) and I decided to add my comment close to hers. I’ve wandered my own blog through many learning curves and loved the process. Photography improved, loved fresh ideas, learned new skills, solved many problems, met wonderful, kind new friends. Had dry patches, written a few that were great. Found a level that suited me. You have been a constant and honest dear blog friend. Thank you Claudia.
Jpy
Could not agree more, absolutely you hit the nail on the head for me as well. The competitiveness of trying to achieve makes me miserable; blogging when I want about what I want is nice. I tried blogging daily for quite a while; not for me. I went nearly a week without blogging recently, and it was one of the best weeks I’ve had in a long time. In fact, I’ve been reading all the way through 5 years of blog posts by Sweet Bee Buzzings and she mentioned “I love to talk.” Well guess what – I don’t! I love to talk sometimes, for a while, to some people, but basically I just like to be quiet and do nerdy things like reading and sewing. Which sort of tells me I’m not really a blogger-type. All of this has taken all the misery of blogging off of me and set me free to just. be. me. Thanks for posting this, it’s encouraging. Mary
I’m a talker…. sometimes. But every blogger has her own comfort level as to how often to post, what to post, when to be quiet and reflective. Good for you, Mary. You’ve been set free! xo
I enjoy reading your blog every day … it’s homey, welcoming, peaceful. I read a good number of blogs and find it amusing and frustrating that everyone seems to be into making a new vignette somewhere in their home every week — sometimes changing more than once a week! I’m lucky if I get something pleasing together that I enjoy and I hesitate to change it much because I’m enjoying it the way it is. It seems rather shallow — just my humble opinion — to constantly change and re-arrange and re-do stuff that doesn’t need any changing just for the sake of having something to blog about. I do lots of little crafty creative things around my home but I don’t think everyone in blogland is interested in every little thing I do. Guess that’s why I’m an off again/on again blogger … sometimes I have something to say or show and — honestly — sometimes I don’t.
I know! I don’t get the vignette thing. Truly. Yes, I try to arrange things in an artful way but when I’m done, it stays that way. I’m the same way – I like doing little things around my home. Some of it is blog-worthy. Much of it isn’t! xo
Claudia,
I agree. I had to stop. I was chasing blogs for followers. I now read a few, comment on a few and write a post when the spirit moves me. I was spending entirely too much time on the computer. I also watched as favorite blogs became all things to all people and some bloggers became “experts” on the correct way. Blogging has changed.
Carol
Another commenter mentioned the ‘experts’ out there. Very interesting phenomenon, I think.
After all these years, I’ve finally decided that I have to blog the way I feel moved to. And I can only comment when I have the time. I try to save a chunk of time to visit other bloggers. But I don’t always have the time to leave a comment. I can only do the best I can. I have to live my life, as well!
Claudia, I am excited if I have 10 comments. Some days I get 5, that’s good also. I sometimes check out some of those blog sites that have 100’s of comments…I don’t leave one at that site….unless I get there early..LOL I have always enjoyed your site. When I first found blogging…I would leave emails. xoxo,Susie
It’s wonderful to receive comments, no matter how many. And I know from personal experience, it’s not always possible to find the time to leave a comment. That’s okay. But it makes the comments that are left even more precious.
I agree with you all the way
I have never had any advertising and growing my blog thing
I just post about my everyday life of all my treasures and looking for more and then selling a few at my yard sales as I get tired of them or change to a different hunt
I know lots of BIG blogs are all about the numbers of advertising etc, so be it
I need to read a real persons blog and what she or he is doing to entertain himself like I do, I am a widow and have no boyfriends so I junk LOL I have been a widow since age 59 , I love flea markets and estate sales blah blah blah don’t wee all in blog land ?
Junking, yard sales and estate sales sound like fabulous things to post about! Thanks for your comment.
I hear you, Claudia. I’ve never cared about growing my blog, to be quite honest. Several years ago I did sign up for ads, and withstood the criticism of some about those who clutter their blogs with ads. I’ve never ever gotten into any of the ‘stats,’ etc. and wouldn’t even begin to know how to look up that info. And I definitely don’t have the time, energy, or inclination to do twitter, pinterest, facebook, etc. Years ago when I started my blog (2008/2009) I posted almost every day, because at that time I did have a lot of projects and makeovers to share. But for years now I’ve posted sparingly and sporadically. I don’t feel that I have anything (certainly not on a daily basis) that could possibly be of interest to anyone but my own family (and many times they’ve been known to yawn when I start talking!). My last post was something of an apology for resharing my vintage Mary garden statue because I have blogged about her so many times in the past. Maybe when we do start revamping our bedrooms (which have been in the ‘planning/talking’ stages for YEARS, then I’ll have some new material to share – finally! haha I hope you enjoy your new found freedom!
Donna
You signed up for ads well before I did, Donna – in the days when it was ‘frowned upon.’ How times have changed! As to how often you post, you have a busy Etsy shop, your own work as an artist, a family, pets to keep you busy. You have to post when you feel moved to. I love your blog, you know that. It’s one of the first blogs I ever discovered and you have been a dear friend from that day on. We still have to meet up, my friend.
As far as revamping our rooms – gosh, I wish we could! No money in the budget (what budget?) for that. I understand! xoxo
So glad you are not changing anything. I like your blog just as it is. It can be fun, thought-provoking, and random….just like life is! And, after reading all the comments, I see that I am not alone. BTW, I’d read a book that you wrote…what kind?? ;)
I don’t know! That might be part of the problem! I have so many interests that I can’t narrow it down. I did start a mystery many years ago….
Finish it! Love those mysteries! ;)
Sounds good to me!
Thanks, Tana!
Your blog is the only one I read every day. I look forward to it and find that we have a lot in common. Please don’t change anything!
I won’t, Mary! Thank you.
Well Said, Claudia. I agree with everything and am glad you found the path of peace in this blogging world of ours. I like your blog because we are about the same age and we have a certain outlook on life that comes from having lived a while. I love being able to peek in on your life and always feel comfortable here. You speak my language and I am able to relax here. Love every time I peek in and really look forward to Favorite Thing Saturdays. I like you (and your blog) just the way you are.
Affectionately,
Cassandra from Renaissance Women
Thank you so much, Cassandra. That means a great deal to me.
I look forward to your postings every day. It is like getting a letter from a friend.I tell my grandchildren what Scout does and “says”. They think of you as my friend and so do I. We will not always agree. You respect other opinions and I respect yours. I truly feel that you write for everyone, not just for other bloggers. I have stopped reading several blogs which I truly did enjoy. AT ONE TIME. At least once a week, someone guest blogs (which is really interesting from time to time) does a completely sponsored post (advert) or speaks only to fellow bloggers. Not all of us care to blog, but we sure do love you, Don and Scout. You have it right, don’t change unless you want to.
You’ve raised a very good point. It’s important to remember that our readers are comprised of bloggers and non-bloggers. I admit to having the occasional sponsored post through BlogHer, but that happens only a few times a year. It does bring in some much needed extra income.
Thanks so much for your support, Regena.
Good Evening Claudia, I really found your honesty refreshing. Before I blogged, I followed you silently…… you were on my favourites list…. to be honest I did not know how to become a follower because I did not blog, I think the first time I found you was when you wrote about your sideboard which you turned into an island. It was interesting because I had done exactly the same….. I was hooked from then on.
I have enjoyed my time blogging….. it will be a year in June, but I too am tired of the “How to grow your blog” I do not want to join twitter or facebook…. I really do not have the time. I love blogging, but I have so many other things to do in my life. One of the reasons I started blogging was to record stories about my grandmother and my mother for my daughters….. and that I am enjoying.
My blog is not big, but I have met some lovely people who I have become friends with….. and for that I am thrilled.
Thank you for such a refreshing post.
Best Wishes
Daphne
You’re welcome, Daphne. I love your blog – you write beautifully and the stories you share are compelling and heartfelt.
I don’t have the time for twitter or instagram or any of that. I have a facebook page because it’s a way to keep up with all my former colleagues in the theater and my former students. But I must admit, it’s very hard for me to post anything new on the facebook page for this blog – and I’m sort of sorry I ever started it because I feel guilty that I don’t post there more often.
Loved this post, Claudia. I feel the very same way. I have minimal ads (I am not stupid, if I could earn a little, why not?) Still haven’t collected a penny ;-) but I learned to let it go. I used to feel so bad when other bloggers who started at the same time took off with followers and have double, triple, quadruple the amount. I had to let it go. I am still getting excited at every new follower, I ALWAYS follow back, that is just courtesy, there are ways of keeping that from becoming overwhelming, too, and I love comments. I believe a blog , a true blue blog, should reflect the personality and style of its author. The ones that are larger than life, or try too hard or too much, I don’t visit as often as I did. xo
It took a long while for my AdSense ads to give me any income at all, Barbara. So hang in there, it will get better. I think the bloggers who have lots more followers and all of that really WORK at it. Or they are niche bloggers. Or they have lots of giveaways that involve becoming a follower to be entered.
You sound like you are being very wise about blogging and that’s a good thing.
I agree with you on every single word you said, sweets!! I am the same way. I don’t let others dictate to me what I should write or not write. Bottom line for ME: I do this blog for the pure joy of it. I absolutely love doing it. It takes me away from the daily grind of life, such as it is. And my life is really beautiful!
xoxo,
Connie
I absolutely love writing this blog, too, my friend. xoxo
Please do not change your blog. It is one I really enjoy. I am way past having little children and it is refreshing not to read about them.
I bet! I never had kids. Love them, just chose not to have them. I understand not always wanting to read about them.
AMEN< SISTER!!!! I am so there with you. I am trying to catch up on the reading I have missed over the last couple of weeks, but my internet is down and I my postings have been very sporadic while I take care of personal issues. Will I die if my stats are down? NO!!! And yes, I do agree with you about those of us who are older bloggers. It is more difficult for us to generate income no matter how much effort we put into our blogs. So I will go on writing what I want and enjoy my blogging friends, because no matter how much I need the income, and I do need the income, the bottom line is that I enjoy the friendships and the support I have received and I enjoy returning that friendship and support with special people.
Hugs,
Laura
The friendships are truly the most rewarding part of being a blogger, Laura. And why the heck are older bloggers, who are consumers, as well, ignored? It makes me spitting mad!
My comment was going to be “Amen Sista.”…..and someone posted that before me…….but that’s okay. I feel the same way. That’s why I like you my dear. xo
Thank you, dear Debby.
Good post, Claudia. I think I’ve only read stats twice – ever. And I knew right off the bat that there was no way i could compete with the younger bloggers who had a decidedly niche market, e.g. cooking, crafting, vintage. My blog is eclectic because my life is eclectic. And I like it that way.
Glad you’re continuing to blog. :-)
l love that – ‘my life is eclectic!’ Perfect. Mine is too!
What an awesome and refreshing post! I don’t know if you remember a few months back I was also obsessing about numbers, traffic to my blog etc..? I wrote a post about it.. I would love to learn how to make money with my blog, we could surely use it but, it’s not me.. I am just not one of those creative people who has a project every day, I don’t do a lot of dyi, I don’t cook all these awesome recipes, I don’t have small children that I craft, bake and am super mom too.. Im just…. me.. Which is why the name of my blog is “Simply Me” because I am just simply myself. I got a lot of good feedback when I posted about my obsession with the numbers game and then I realized it was kinna sucking the life out of me to try and “keep up” so now, I am back to what I was when I first started my blog. Simply myself. I write about things I enjoy, things I’d like to share, my financial mountain I am trying to climb and my life in general. If I have a post up everyday, great, if not, great too..
I come to your blog almost everyday because I enjoy what you post about.. You’re real, like myself and a lot of others out there.. Never change :) Awesome post Claudia :)
Robyn
XO
I do remember that, Robyn. And it looks like you’ve found your answer. Being you. And believe me, if we are true to ourselves when we blog, readers will see that and return for more. Thank you, Robyn.
You and Don are such a nice, loving, normal couple..I love hearing about the work you both do..and little Scout..such a sweet little beauty..I love it when she writes her “posts”..So to quote the great Billy Joel..”I Love You Just The Way You Are”..Hugs!
Thanks so much, Nancy! (now that song is going through my head!)
lol..sorry about that Claudia..I hate it when that happens!
Oh don’t worry. I love that song!
HI Claudia,
Having just turned one, in blogger years, I have had 365 days to think about what direction I’d like to take, regarding voice, audience, photography, and, although it never crossed my mind when I first pressed ”Publish”, income. With the economic situation in Greece being what it is, I could really use the extra cash that a blog can bring. I realize that this takes major effort, mostly in the form of beautiful images, DIY enthusiasts and extravagant makeovers, where decorating blogs are concerned. These efforts attract more visitors, leading to advertisers, and finally, funds. But, I can’t afford a fancy hi-tech camera, or trips to the city to purchase ‘products’ for styling every two days! Thus, I post when I am inspired or feel the need to write, which I consider cathartic. I wonder: are advertisers even interested in blogs that focus on the written word? A professor once told me, ‘A writer writes!’. But, let’s face it: isn’t it so much more rewarding when others hum along to your song, bury themselves in your words, watch your play! The fact that some very nice people occasionally pop over to my blog makes me smile; it’s as if we’ve chatted about some common passions for a while.
Claudia, I’ve said it before, as so many others have, in turn: you communicate your thoughts and feelings and pictures in such a way, that for me, is calming, even when the subject matter may be controversial! Thanks for your honesty and ability to always be ‘timely’!
Poppy xo
Thank you, dear Poppy.
You’ve raised an interesting question: Do advertisers care about blogs that focus on the written word? Looking around blogland, I tend to think the answer is NO. And that makes me sad. For me, writing is the backbone and the heart and soul of my blog. I love photography, as well, but I was blogging for over 5 years before I updated my camera. And it’s not cheap to buy a new camera…I know that.
I love words. I know you do, too. I refuse to put myself in a niche. I could never afford all the things I would need to buy to do a lot of DIY posts. And quite frankly, I would get bored real quickly.
Keep writing the way you do, Poppy. You have a wonderful style and, in my humble opinion, I think writing about where you live, which is foreign and exotic to so many of us, is what makes you different from other bloggers. That makes you unique. xoxo
Claudia I am with you. Though the income would be nice if it was more, it declined while my stats were growing. Go figure. I think you get to a point where there isn’t much more to say. I am mulling over things this summer. Not sure if I will continue. I think I want the time back for just me and the family and of course the garden.
Isn’t that a strange thing? Why would your stats increase and your income decrease? As you say, go figure. I have to say I would miss you terribly if you stopped blogging. Maybe less posts? Two or three a week? You give us so much valuable information. But, of course, you have to do what is right for you, my friend.
The most important thing that I read is: “The blog isn’t changing.” Thank you, thank you , and thank you, again!
You are very welcome, Susan!
I agree with what everyone else has shared. As a newer blogger, I choose blogs that seem to be purely honest about life, not “look at my perfect house” but “here’s how we are surviving and thriving.” I write for the pure enjoyment of sharing and honestly, until today, never thought about stats or ads or competition but then that’s how I am in real life. I give, you take if it fits, if it doesn’t, move on, because someone out there will have what you are looking for!
Thanks again for sharing from your heart.
It sounds like you have the perfect attitude about blogging, Chy! Good for you! I, like you, want to read about real life, not staged photos.
Claudia Dear I am so happy that you have written this post about blogging. I never want my blog to become a chore. I started blogging a long time ago just for the fun of something that connected me to like-minded creative souls. I have formed some wonderful meaningful friendships through blogging and that makes me happy. Truly happy! If we merely stay true to ourselves that is what is important. Not money. Not stats. Not popularity. True, honest, creative bliss. That’s my two cents worth (with lots of inflation). Happy Hearts are Creative Hearts…
Wise words, my friend. You’ve said it beautifully.
I’m pretty naive I guess. When I started blogging I didn’t know anything about stats, advertising, etc. I still really don’t know much about it. I started because I took over 3000 hand-knitted/crocheted items to victims of the earthquake in Japan. The people who made the items were interested in pictures showing my son and I delivering said items. And I made friends. Period. I keep blogging because of the friendships. I can’t understand what makes my blog interesting to others, because it’s just about my life and I feel that’s fairly boring. But my new friends seem to like it and I love making friends. You can never have too many. Any I’ve met several in “real life” and we enjoy each other’s company immensely. That’s the only reason I blog. For friendship.
Blessings,
Betsy
Sometimes being naive is a good thing, Betsy! You started your blog with the most noble ond selfless of intentions and it evolved into what it is today. You are right. I treasure the friends I have met through blogging.
If you follow your heart, you’ll have no regrets. Think you have a handle on that! Good girl!
Thanks, Diane!
Dear Claudia, I come here every day to see what you have been up to. I enjoy your blog so much and find it so interesting. As I’ve stated before, you should write a book, I would surely buy it. You have a wonderful way with words and great photos, a beautiful dog and a wonderful hubby!! You would be someone I would really love to meet and have a long visit. Please don’t stop the good work. We all enjoy it very much!
Thank you
Linda in Kennesaw, Georgia
Thank you very much for those kind words, Linda!
I love your Blog for all of the reasons that you stated are your priorities. You can tell this that you are doing this from the heart. Thank you for that!
You are most welcome. It’s my pleasure, Melanie.
Love your blog..No BS..Feel like I know you , Don and Scout personally…
Same here, Missy. Thank you.
I am with you. I do not do competition. I haven’t monetized my blog…other than the fact that it links to my retail website. There is more to life for us “seasoned”bloggers, than that. If I can’t enjoy it and have the freedom to blog or not, it loses appeal to me. I heartfeltedly understand and agree.
Ruth
Thank you so much, Ruth. It has to come from the heart, otherwise, why do it?
I too have stopped reading blogs that I once enjoyed. They are just trying to sell me something. On the bottom of the blog it will say other things you might be interested in and they are just ads. They used to be other stories. I do enjoy your blog because it is from the heart. Just everyday things that interest a lot of people. I don’t always agree with you but I still enjoy reading your blog. Please continue to be true to the people you write for and not the advertisers. Which I believe you always have/
Thank you, Olivia. And I so appreciate the fact that, even though you don’t always agree with me, you keep coming back. That means so much to me!
Claudia, I stumbled across your blog last year, when I was browsing cottage blogs. I have a few blogs that I follow because they write from their hearts. You are my first choice every time I read. I felt a connection to you for similar likes, hobbies, strong feelings on what matters to us, etc. I so enjoyed your writing, I read all your blog entries from the beginning.
Today I had to respond with a comment. As I read, I began to smile more and more. You are someone who writes about “life” that I can relate to….I am your generation, live simply with my husband, and am happiest when puttering around my home. I look forward to your blog every day, and feel we could be friends if we ever met. I also live near NYC, love dogs, gardens, and count calmness, gentleness and generosity of spirit important traits to benefit myself and my loved ones.
Thank you for sharing peeks of your life, and enriching each of us with your honesty, integrity and forthrightness.
Oh, you’ve brought tears to my eyes, Deborah. Thank you. It sounds like we might be ‘neighbors’ – in the sense that we live in the greater metropolitan NYC area. Maybe someday we will meet and have a cup of coffee together. I’d like that.
I’m in awe of what you do–seemingly so easily. Something new and interesting e v e r y d a y ! You have certainly earned the right to be proud. I, too, am disappointed in some blogs that at the start were fun and unique, but have become just what you described–touting business at every turn, and in some cases you can’t even cut them loose! They don’t have an unsubsribe feature, so you are stuck with them. It drives the numbers up I’m sure, but not in an above-board way. Keep doing what you are doing, because joy in what it is all about. Wasn’t it Mark Twain that said, “Find something you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life.”
Oh, that Mark Twain was so wise. Thank you, my friend, for your kind words.
Thanks for this post Claudia. Once again you speak my thoughts. I do tables because that is what I like to do. I take photos of this that and the other, because that is what I like to do. I mention blogs and link them in my posts because I want to, not because I am being paid to do so. Same goes for businesses, local and otherwise. I enjoy the parties, too.
My blog is keeping me sane and active in my “seasoned” years. I enjoy the process. If I didn’t I would stop blogging.
I believe my little blog is just as viable as the big blogs that make money. I did a lot of volunteering when my children were young. I don’t know how many times, I was sort of put down because I didn’t “work”. I did work, The work I did was not widely thought of as worthwhile, since there was no paycheck. Sometimes, the value isn’t considered unless there is a monetary benefit. I don’t need money from ads. Fortunately, I get to blog for the sheer joy. For me that has value.
I hope I have developed a more relaxed attitude about blogging. Comments are wonderful. I enjoy each and every one of them. Even the not so nice ones. I just don’t count the number of comments, these days.
I completely understand bloggers who choose to monetize. It just isn’t for me.
You’re absolutely right about your blog, Pat. It is just as viable as a big blog that makes money. It’s a beautiful blog, it comes from your heart – money making does not define the ‘importance’ of a blog. Thanks so much for your wise words. xo
Thank you, Claudia.
I was totally against ads for three years. Then I could see a divorce looming ahead of me. And I had been a homemaker while lots of other women were out creating a career and a way to make money. All I know is writing and photography. I was a journalism major in college. Writing is cathartic to me. I would love to take the ads completely off. But I simply can’t afford to. As for decorating my house and shuffling things around, I’ve been doing that since I was 20 years old. I couldn’t stop doing that if I wanted to, because it makes me happy. I am doing what I wanted to in life. I am writing, and getting paid a little bit of money for it. So I finally feel that I have achieved something worthwhile. Never stop being who you are. To hell with the burlap and what’s trendy. I don’t care and frankly, never will. I like what I like, and that is that.
Brenda
Writing is absolutely cathartic for me. And you do what feels right for you, Brenda. You love to decorate and rearrange and write and take photos. That’s being true to yourself. I like being paid a bit for my writing as well, I just can no longer worry about stats and what the other bloggers are doing….I know you understand and feel the same way.. We’ve talked about this. I have to be true to me. You blog from the heart, as well. xo
I was happy just reading the title of your post on my blogroll today! I knew it was going to be a from-the-heart post. Claudia, want to know when I stopped looking at stats? First of all, it took months before I even knew they were there. And then I only saw the number of page views, which got me really excited. then I realized the page views were broken down by traffic sources and guess what? Lots of mine were from strange dot coms. I did have the good sense not to go to their web sites but I googled them and found lots of bloggers saying they were foreign porn sites. What a laugh I had at myself. I still can’t figure out why in the world they’d be interested in my simple little blog but I no longer get excited about numbers!
I think I figured out in a few months of blogging something very important. How much time do I want to spend blogging about my life and how much time do I want to spend living my life? Now I’ve gotten blogging and visiting down to 3-4 days or nights a week. The other days I just don’t tune in.
I do realize that many bloggers are trying to make money from blogging out of sheer need. And many do a lovely job of blogging even though they also have a business to promote.
I finally asked myself, “What if no one read my blog, would I still blog?” and I realized I would because there is such joy in the writing and in that first moment when I actually see it in preview that I have a big smile on my face. And then there are the friendships, as other commenters wrote about. Over the months getting to feel as if I know someone better and better, hurting when they hurt, rejoicing when they have good news, getting that peek into their lives and houses. That is priceless.
I’m sure, despite all of our comments here to what you wrote, blogging will go on evolving into some things we don’t like. As you said, Claudia, that doesn’t mean we have to be a part of it. It can be what we choose it to be.
Bravo, Claudia!
Oh thank you, my friend. I remember seeing links to porn sites on my blog! Shocking. Sometimes it was due to some word I used in the blog post title that could be creatively reinterpreted, I guess! Yikes.
The friendships found through blogging are priceless. And as someone who loves to write, as you do, I love seeing my post published on my blog. I smile, too. And then I often end up editing it. Again and again. Go figure! I would still blog if no one read my blog because I love writing and it is cathartic for me. You are a wonderful writer, Dewena, and it is such a pleasure to read your words.
chère Claudia,
Je lis votre blog depuis un certain temps et je considère qu’il est très bien écrit (même avec google translate car je ne parle pas anglais)
Je suis une femme de 66ans et je vis en France à Nancy et pour moi c’est très intéressant de suivre votre vie aux USA.
Merci beaucoup
Claude
de rien, Claude.
Suite…
La traduction de mon commentaire est quelque peu amusante
CLAUDE
That was refreshing! I always lament about how blogging just isn’t as much fun as it used to be. Once money got involved it really all went downhill.I was against ads for the longest time! And yet, I’m grateful for the bit of money I’ve been able to make from my Adsense ads :) That money allows me to do little extra things for my family that we normally wouldn’t be able to afford. Although I always tell my husband that I’d make more money working a part-time job at a minimum wage (which I may just do)!
Yes, you’re “supposed to” do Google+ and Google wants you to be an “authority” on your subject matter, you really should be on Twitter and Facebook. I just don’t know how people have time for real life with spending so much time online! I can’t do it!
I had to smile about the constant re-arranging and diy projects comments. I honestly believe that people move or buy little houses to fix up because they’ve run out of material for their blogs! I do! I started as a DIY/Craft blog but I just don’t have the desire to do that anymore. Crafting on demand is just not fun to me! But some people seem to be able to pull it off with no problem.
Anyway, just wanted to pop in and say good for you!
Well, I blog about my life, so I guess I am an “authority!” – how ridiculous!
I agree. I need time for real life. I tried twitter. In the end, it just seems like busywork. I agree with you about the fixing up of houses for blog fodder! Also, there are those bloggers who do nothing but paint, re-paint and re-decorate rooms that already look lovely. They have to have something to blog about.
Thanks for your comment, Manuela!
Claudia,
I don’t know anything about blogging, ads or statistics. I just know that reading your blog makes me feel peaceful and happy. Your goodness and kindness come through your writing. I started reading last August around the time you lost your precious Riley (I cried remembering how it felt losing my sweet furry ones). I so enjoy coming to your blog everyday, “visiting” your comfortable home. Thank you!
Oh, and I think I recognized Don in a rerun of an episode of Frazier!!
Cindy
Pennsauken, NJ
He’s done a couple of Fraziers – I’m so glad you saw him! Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Cindy.
Claudia I love your blog because it is you! I love your writing voice. I love your home, your wonderful Don and sweet Scout. Your life is different then mine but I like that also…a different view of things. Your write so well and express things that I’m ‘thinking’ but don’t put into words….like this post! I started blogging to reach out to others and its the main reason I continue to blog. The friendships I’ve made make it worthwhile for me. I don’t post everyday but I do post several times a week and only if I want to. I just started a few ad’s on my blog hoping to make some postage money for giveaways. It’s not making me much and I’m not really interested in pursuing it more then I already am. I do link to a few parties and enjoy that, but I also find that the same blogs link the same post to all the parties. I am rethinking all of this and I’m not sure what I want to do. I love supporting bloggers that I consider friends (like you) and will continue that. The parties I love and will continue with are things I would blog about anyway. My follower stats crack me up…no way do that many people even begin to read my blog, and you know what? I don’t care. So thank you for being you and saying your truth which as you can tell by the many comments, is our truth also. I have done some major editing of the blogs I read and really only look at the one’s I have a connection with. Blogging is still something I love and I want to keep it that way!
hugs,
Linda
Thank you, Linda. When I had the Followers widget, it was always very clear to me that it was nowhere near an indication of how many people read my blog! There were names there that I never heard from, that probably hit the follow button once and then moved on.
I like my little party but I have to admit I am put off by those who use one post to link to 30 to 40 blog parties every week. It just seems wrong. Sometimes I think I should end the weekly meme, but then I know that so many of you love it. I go back and forth on that one.
I’m one of the one’s that love that party. I too get frustrated with those who do the same link for lots of parties. I might do 3 or 4 that are on the same days, but even that seems kinda silly to me. So I’m rethinking that also. Still I do love your party, I look forward to it each week.
Claudia – As always, you speak from your heart and so eloquently!! I am a fairly new blogger and I am just amazed at the friendships I have developed. I feel like you and others are life long friends that I value and treasure. I feel like you, Don and Scout should be my next door neighbors! I started my blog to promote my Etsy shop but had no idea I would develop the friendships I have. There are so many wonderful people out there that why would I want to spend my valuable time with other bloggers who are not people I would be friends with in real life? I don’t do ads but it’s my choice and I don’t even know how to check stats. I do love comments and just get such a thrill out of people taking their time to write a comment on my post. It just thrills me to death!
I have come to love to post and I do a lot of projects – but, that’s just me. I’m always making something. There are so many bloggers who I don’t understand their financial situation to be able to do some of the things they do. But, that’s their priviledge.
Anyway, I love your blog and hope it never changes. I treasure you as one of my dearest friends and Bella thinks Scout is her buddy also. LOL
Love,
Judy
You have an enormous amount of creative energy, Judy, and I know you love projects – but you do it because you love it, not to compete. There’s the difference. Thank you for your kind words, my friend. I treasure your friendship, dear Judy, and am so grateful to have met you. Scout says to give Bella a hug for her.
Amen! Thankyou so much for being an individual. I cannot stand one more white room or granite countertop. Being older is really liberating! You are always the first blog I go to and my blog list has shortened considerably because of WHITE ROOMS, GRAIN SACKS, GRANITE COUNTERTOPS. Does anyone out there have a mind of their own?
One wonders that very thing, sometimes. Thanks, Suzanne.
YES!!!! I actually clapped while reading this post! Writing in my little blog has meant the world to me. I don’t have a ton of followers and I go back and forth on the advert thing….but I so love having this little place to call my own. And the fact that I have met some awesome people is an abosolute Blessing. Your blog was one of the first that I followed when I happed onto this blog world and you never ever disapoint.
Blessings, Joanne
Blessings to you, Joanne. I like your words, “having a little place to call my own.” That’s it. That’s why we love our blogs. xo
Claudia, once again you have hit the nail on the head…look at the comments. We love you for your writing, your view, and how you describe your life to us.
It’s not about the burlap, or the chevron stripes….honestly I have no idea how those bloggers manage to come up with all of those breakneck speed projects. Do they even have a life? Those kind of competitive blogs are starting to all look like the same one. But to each their own. Let them at it, is what I say.
We love you for you. And I also love how you manage to put into words what has been lurking in the backs of our minds lately.
Did you get a chance to read Cindy at Rosehaven’s cottage blog post? It echos some of your sentiments about comparing ourselves to the bright young twentysomething bloggers.
Jen
I just went over and read her post. (And by the way, thank you for telling me about her – what a lovely blog!) I immediately identified with what she had to say about those comparisons. I’ve certainly been there.
Thanks, Jen.
Ironically, of all the blogs I read, you’re the only blogger I feel a personal connection to. Perhaps that’s because I’m “seasoned” too.
Thank you, Debra. I’m using the word “seasoned” almost exclusively these days. I find all other words to describe where I am in life to be limiting!
It has all been said above i think:)! As a new reader and not even a ‘crafter’,it is indeed your warmth and kindness and ‘realness’ (i know you probably would cringe at this word) that emanates and draws me in,reflected in how you live your life and of course your adorable Scout! Thank-you for offering all of this and sharing:)
Love the word “realness” Grace! Thank you for kind words.
Oct 2010 – I did the post Fasten your seatbelts- linked it on my sidebar and left it there. Haven’t changed my mind since then either. Deleted my follower numbers the year before and have not read a stat in over 3 years. I sponsor the rare giveaway just so that I can give someone a gift and I have them post about it or follow just for more chances if they really want to win the prize. I no longer do parties ..I loved them way back when we first started because I had genuine connections and made close friends I still have today, but they got weird when folks linked to 8 or more each post… I personally do not like ads on blogs, do not read them , so I won’t do them either, but don’t care if others use them…When I heard from a big blogger friend that she was buying stuff so she could blog about it and then returning it, I knew the tides had turned down a path I will not travel..so yep ..me too :D
I remember that post, Z. You were ahead of the rest of us and I thank you always for your keen insights – about the blogging world and about the world in general. You are very wise. xo
Thank you so very much, Wimmera. (I love your name!)
this is my very first visit here, I came to blogging a few years ago, through my artists friends.I came to meet knew friends, to share and to enjoy.I have never been a competitive person ever, I wish I was a bit more that way, the numbers never meant anything to me, it was the good friends i have met who I will always be.That is my prize, not how many followers I have or page views, I know someone who cuts and pastes the same sentence and visits 1000’s of blogs asking for followers, I just don;t understand the pleasure in it.
I find feeling the need to cut and paste the same sentence asking for followers very sad. Really? Is that what this is all about? Oh my.
Thank you for your wise words, Laurie. The friendships that happen because a connection is made, not forced, are what make blogging so rewarding. Thank you for visiting and I hope you come back again!
Boy, I knew you’d get lots of omments on this one! I have felt the EXACT same way. Exactly. I wrote about it last week. Having taken a break during my mom’s cancer and then her passing last fall, I am OVERWHELMED trying to figure out how to woo my old readers back. There’s just so many blogs and social media outlets to keep up with, so much ‘white noise or repetitive projects’ that it’s hard to get and keep visitors. And then even when visitors come, commenting is WAY down. Even pinterest is totally repetive now. No new content.
I decided, like you, to blog for the joy of it. It’s frustrating to post about my day with some pretty pictures and get no comments at all. I AM trying to rebuild community, and added some oomph to my facebook page, but that is sheer frustration as with 800+ ‘likes’ my posts only get seen by 50 or so and usually get no comments or ‘likes’. Hard to see the point. At least with facebook or google + and twitter and instagram and youtube and and and….ad nauseum.
So, I’m standing up to be counted as one who will blog for the joy of it, even if it’s just to hear myself type. It’s my journal of my days, and something I’ll look back on someday with pride.
The blogging world really changed, didn’t it? Too much, too much. Who wants to spend all that time on social media? Not me. You’ll get your readers back, Cindy. But, you’re right, there’s so much more ‘white noise’ out there competing for viewing time. Hang in there!
I think there are many reasons for blogging. For me, it will never be about added income, popularity, etc. It is for me basically to share events and photos, garden activities, successes and failures, pieces of family life. I also have a second blog where I post for my son on matters about Haiti. I occasionally check the stats for both blogs….which are pretty low. That does not disturb me in the least for my personal blog, but for the blog on Haiti I’ll admit that it hurts my heart that people have forgotten about this country which is only about 90 miles from Disneyland! I don’t ask for money…I only wish people cared, asked questions, became a bit more informed. But I won’t resort to tricks to get there.
Good for you. No tricks, just honest writing. Unfortunately, the public seems to have the attention span of a gnat in terms of crises. That is very sad, indeed.
Hi Claudia,
I visit blogs to be amused and learn tidbits of information that may help improve my life. You and I are of the same era which may be the reason, at least partially, that I so look forward to reading your take on everyday life in your corner of the world.
Wishing you to have a fantabulous Memorial Day weekend with Don and Scout.
Thank you so much, Kelly.
WOOHOO ! You go girl ! Wonderful post ! I am here via Jen from Muddy Boot Dreams ! I have been blogging for 3 years now and run two blogs . I blog for a hobby as I am retired and enjoy sharing what goes on in our neck of the woods and my photos . I enjoy so many other blogs and love the fact that I can travel the world through them with out leaving my country village valley home as I am a home body and love my woods , gardens and nature that we have around us ! I understand what your saying here and I agree it can get tedious and demanding but I don’t let it get to me , for blogging for me is all in fun and if no one likes what I write or my photos then don’t visit and if they do then I will be more then happy to share ! I won’t put adds on my blogs or be paid for them as for me that’s not what blogging is about ! Thanks for sharing your thoughts of the blogging world . Wonderful blog by the way ! Have a great day !
I love blogging, Country Gal, and the joy it gives me is a precious gift. So I’m not going to stress about any of that other stuff any more. Here’s to having fun! Thanks so much for commenting.
I came over from Jen at Muddy Boot Dreams and, boy, am I glad I did! It is so refreshing to know that another blogger feels the same way I do! I’ve been blogging for about the same amount of time you have. I stopped looking at the numbers years ago, literally. I also made a conscious choice a about the same time I stopped looking at the numbers that I wouldn’t have any ad revenue on my blog at all. I will admit that initially I thought it would be good. But as I progressed and got into my blogging groove I realized that my blog is about chronicling things for me and my Hubby (who is at work away from home all day and misses the goings on around here). And I determined it is not about readership or ad revenue. So I chose to disengage from that scene altogether. I’ve even been tempted from time to time to shut off comments so I don’t even look to that as a measurement gauge. But then I realize I’d miss discovering new blogs and the wonderful women behind them, so I don’t. Again, thank you for writing this post. It is a much-needed message in the blogging community. Kudos to you!
Thank you so much, Cindy. I visited your post last night, when Jen left a comment here mentioning it – I would have left a comment but I was on my way out the door to the theater. I so understand comparing ourselves to younger bloggers – I’ve been guilty of that same thing. You wrote about it beautifully. And I’m so glad I discovered your blog, which is already bookmarked.
Well I know it doesn’t help your ad income but your blog is one of a handful that I ALWAYS read. I may not do it every day but I never miss reading one. You have become part of my life (feels strange to say that when I’ve never met you) and I think of you as a friend.
I totally agree with you as to the numbers. I don’t care about that. I have always written my blog for me and if anyone else likes to read it – that’s icing. I write a post when I feel like it. I did start to feel a little stress at one point (the competition bug) because I am a type A personality and I like to do my best but blogging is supposed to be fun – not work. So I’ve swept those feelings away. I will be making some changes to my blog in the future but not to get more readers, just for the fun of it. J
Good for you, Julie. Blogging should be fun and fulfilling and rewarding, not a popularity contest! Thanks so much for weighing in.
You must have been reading my mind!
Big Hugs,
Susan and Bentley
I must have been doing just that, Susan!
It’s so liberating to be clear, isn’t it? I went through that in December when I tried to do that big Christmas posting extravaganza because I wanted to “make it” as a “big blogger” — and I found out two days in that I hated it. I like posting often, and I hope to keep doing that, and I like sharing with everyone in this community. But the competitive, businesslike aspect of it, I just don’t. I felt so much better when I finally realized that. Best of luck to you, Claudia, I love you and your blog and I will keep reading it no matter what you do! ~Angela~
This is a great post. My blog lasted a couple months. Gee it was a case of trying to get followers and looking at stats and comments. With worrying family health issues I just didn’t have the time. I thought it would be a great place to showcase my crafts. I then see other bloggers complaining, that they suddenly see copies of their work and ideas on other blogs. I could no longer spend the time, looking at all the new postings that would appear on the 100+ blogs. Now I just follow a few. You and the others give me something interesting to look at and read. Now 30 mins with a cup of coffee in the morning and I’ve caught up with my fav bloggers. You, Cozy little house and Muddy boot Dreams in my opinion are the best out there. If I start blogging again you guys will be my inspiration.
Who knew blogging was a competitive sport? I’m a day late reading this Claudia. Fortunately my blog has always just been an outlet for me and a way to share things with family, friends and new friends. I would drive myself crazy if I looked at the stats and tried to make money off my blog. I love looking at a lot of different blogs, but I comment on only a handful because usually they have struck a chord with me. Your, slice-of-life approach is what appeals to me most. Glad you are staying you. Ann
I was going to start this out by saying I read your blog every day, then realized this was yesterday’s post so I need to amend that to say I read all of your posts! I love the stories you tell, how you describe your work, etc., etc. But I must say this — we are sometimes on opposite sides of issues you occasionally talk about but I love and admire the way you present your feelings on them in such a straight forward way — this is how I feel and the reasons why. I have never gotten the impression you were being preachy or had the attitude if I didn’t agree with you, I was wrong. That is so refreshing!
Amen to this!
I blog for myself mainly… and hopefully for a few who enjoy what I have to say or show.
Blogging has defiantly become very crowded!I do look at my stats, but more to gauge when I have hit a cord with people and to see what interests people most. I terms of “building” my blog, I am sure I do everything wrong. I don’t post reliably for one thing. I do however care about the content and always strive to create quality posts. I am also true to myself- that is very important.
Claudia, Jen@Muddy Boot Dreams directed me here through her blog and I am glad she did….I have long felt like this…I do not obsess about stats (most days) and I am dedicated to my content. I don’t do ads either and I know I will never be part of the big bloggers but I am happy for my readers and their wonderful comments. I am glad I found your blog and look forward to following along.
I’m number 172 in this long row of commenters. Does this make me one of the crowd? I agree with every word you’re saying here (I’m the tiniest of bloggers and don’t even earn a single Rappen (penny)). Can’t wait to read and see more of you. Have a nice weekend. Regula
Thank you for your blog, Claudia. I’ve enjoyed it for a couple of years now.
I too am weary of reading of drop cloths, burlap and may I add, chalk paint. If it floats someone’s boat – terrific – room for all – but it’s boring me to tears.
I’m no social media maven, but I predict at some point in the near future blogs like your will see a surge in readership for the very reasons that folks followed them in the first place – community and connection.
Thank you for sharing – your thoughts and your time.
Blessings! –Carol
OMG! It’s overwhelming how many blogs are out there and some of them have link parties that generate 500 links or more. It’s obvious that many of the blogs are in it for the popularity and the business end of things and that’s fine if that’s what they choose. I’ve communicated with many of them when I first began my blog and once they became famous and very popular I never heard from them again. I guess they don’t have time and that’s understandable. I do agree it has become extremely competitive and that’s not me either. In fact, I haven’t blogged in several months (for health reasons) and I just don’t have the energy to put into to it. I’m thinking about changing directions and just focusing on photography and have a website just for sharing photos.
Your blog is one of my favorites. You talk about everyday life and I can relate so much of what you share. It’s smaller and more intimate. It’s obvious that you care about your readers and that you’re not in it for sheer numbers. When I first got started I read a blog called “Dear Daisy Cottage” that was very warm and friendly. She changed gears a couple years ago and now has a photography blog called “Imagery by Kimberly”
Some of the big rock star bloggers (as some of them call each other)seem to hang in a pack and they all promote each other. I can’t afford to constantly redecorate my place and can only come up with so many ideas. To each their own. I’m glad you’re staying true to you. I do see a book in your future.
Warm regards, Sandy xx00