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On Loss

January 15, 2016 at 9:11 am by Claudia

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Lord, I love my morning coffee!

This morning is one of those mornings where it tastes like the best cup of coffee I’ve ever had. I’m savoring it. On my second cup now: Peet’s French Roast, pour-over method, which is now the only way I make my coffee. The apartment has a Keurig, a very nice one, but this is my preferred method.

The mug is from Billy’s Bakery in NYC. I had to bring it with me.

Alan Rickman’s death has really thrown me for a loop. I can’t get him out of my mind. Too young, of course, at 69 – much too young. He was one of my favorite actors and not because of any Harry Potter movies. I’ve never seen one. I have, however, seen him onstage, many years ago at the Edinburgh Festival, and he was, as you would expect, compelling and amazing and mesmerizing. He had talent galore and a charisma that was undeniable. I felt that charisma that evening. I loved his work in Truly, Madly, Deeply  (one of my favorite movies) and in Sense and Sensibility  and a host of other films. His performances were never boring, always impeccable, always riveting.

He had a voice that this vocal coach found endlessly fascinating. He shouldn’t be gone. He should still be with us.

Another great stage actor – Brian Bedford – also passed away a few days ago. He was one of the best. I was fortunate enough to see him onstage in Stratford, Ontario in the seventies – with Maggie Smith – and I still remember his performance. And hers. They are imbedded in my memory; magical, powerful, delightful, something I could only dream of doing as a young actress  – I could go on and on with the adjectives. I watched him onstage in a couple of different productions. In Twelfth Night, he played Malvolio and at one point, when aroused in the middle of the night, he entered carrying a teddy bear. Oh, what a fine actor he was.

Such enormous losses for the Theater. Such talent, humanity,kindness and compassion gone in a flash.

Too much loss.

Meredith and I were talking yesterday about how our father’s death has affected us much more deeply than we had imagined it would. We miss him so much. And we’re very sad that her little boy, Little Buddy or, as I call him, Little Z, only had a brief time with his grandfather. My father adored him. He found him delightful and fascinating and loved nothing more than cuddling and reading to him. I think it’s fair to say that Little Z was the light of my dad’s life.

I had a message on Facebook yesterday from a guy I grew up with – we went to the same church. He wanted me to know that the Pastor of our church died on January 10th. Pastor Rolik was such a strong and powerful part of my young life; a gentle, compassionate and truly kind man. He was my mom’s age – she would have been 88. Such sad news to hear and, of course, my immediate reaction was that I needed to tell Mom. And Dad.

And I can’t.

The condo is now officially on the market. When it was listed, Meredith sent me the link.

Seeing it empty with nothing left from the many years my parents lived there was depressing. And very sad.

I guess this has ended up being a post about loss and grief and sadness.

On a happier note, rehearsals are going well. I truly love table work. I’m always eager to start again the next day. And isn’t that wonderful?

The apartment is great. (I really do like these apartments.) I’m reading a lot when I first get up and again in the evening, after I finish my dinner. Yes, I miss Don and Scout, but I’m having a lovely time here. This always happens, you know. I dread leaving home but once I get settled, I adjust quickly and really enjoy my time in Hartford.

Happy Friday.

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Filed Under: grief, Hartford, life, On The Road, theater 49 Comments

Thursday Thoughts

January 14, 2016 at 9:32 am by Claudia

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• I love my work. Especially when it involves Shakespeare – that, I think, is my favorite gig. Yesterday was a long day, but I was completely energized by it. Completely! We spent about four hours on table work, then Darko had to leave for another commitment. After lunch, I spent 90 minutes working with Romeo and then another 90 minutes working with Juliet. In each case, we started to go through their individual lines word by word, checking the rhythm, the stress, the pronunciation, and the meaning.

I’m a lover of words. I am a lover of Shakespeare’s words, which – to me – are deeply profound. So, to have the chance to work with them, to hopefully inspire the actors I’m working with, and, in turn, get inspired myself? Heaven.

Rather than being tired at the end of the day, I was flying high. What a gift that is. I’m very grateful.

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• Recognize my quilt? There was a perfectly nice quilt on the bed when I arrived, but it was probably a tad too heavy for my taste. Besides, I’ve learned that bringing a quilt from home, in this case, one I made, makes things homier. I also brought a shawl/throw that I knitted several years ago, which lives on the sofa.

Bits of home brought to my home-away-from-home. Or as Don calls it: my Mary Tyler Moore Life.

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• Case in point: I came home last night, called Don, made some dinner and, after watching Jeopardy, decided there was nothing worth watching on the tube. I pulled out my Kindle and my current read, which was another book by Jane Casey. Snuggled in that throw you see on the sofa, I read and read and read until the phone rang a little after 10, which is normally the time I go to bed.

It was Don, wondering why he hadn’t heard from me. (We always call each other to say goodnight.) I told him I’d been reading and had lost track of the time. What did he say? “Look at you, in your apartment, reading for hours, leading your Mary Tyler Moore Life!”

I think he gets a real kick out of it. Never mind that my preferred place would be cuddled up to him on our sofa in the den. But, it is a luxury at this point in our lives to read for three hours uninterrupted. Scoutie needs a lot of hands-on care right now, so when I’m home, I rarely get to do anything without keeping one eye on her. Neither does Don. I’d rather be with her, but if I can’t, I might as well enjoy one of the perks of being away from home.

• In the blogging world: I see so many younger bloggers getting book deals  and not so many older bloggers getting book deals. I suppose it’s like anything in life, ‘young’ sells. I’m sure they’re thrilled and they should be and it’s all wonderful and I’m happy for them. But when I see their books as I’m out and about and look at the content or the advice or the tips…it’s always stuff I already know. I find myself shaking my head, thinking “There’s nothing new here!”

I suspect I’m not the target audience.

I suppose that’s also the way of the world. The older generation is wiser, simply because they’ve lived longer and learned the lessons that the younger generation is just now discovering. And when that younger generation ‘discovers’ something, it seems new and fresh.

But it isn’t.

I’m not a parent, but I imagine this is much the same thing that parents witness with their children. I’ve experienced it as a teacher. We can give them tips, tell them what we’ve learned, show them the way… but until they have that light bulb moment and discover it themselves, much of our wisdom and advice falls on deaf ears.

And, yes, of course I’d love a book deal, but in truth, I have no idea what the heck I’d write about! Anyway, even if I did have the ghost of an idea, I doubt it would fly in this world of younger-bloggers- turned-authors.

The same thing happens on television and in the movies; impossibly young and beautiful actors playing doctors, scientists and/or high-powered attorneys. Really? Older and wiser and experienced and whatever adjective you can come up with does have a place, but it’s very limited.

• Today: more table work, which is endlessly fascinating to me. I’m looking forward to it.

Happy Thursday.

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Filed Under: aging, blogging, books, media, On The Road, reading, Shakespeare 40 Comments

Getting Into Working Mode

January 13, 2016 at 7:40 am by Claudia

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I’m afraid this photo is the best I can do for you today. Yesterday was a long day and today promises to be even longer. We’re starting at 9, with four hours of what we call ‘table work’ then a break for lunch. After that, I coach both the actor who plays Romeo and the actress who plays Juliet privately for three hours.

Darko has to be in and out of rehearsal this week, so we’re tag-teaming in those chunks of time where he can’t be there. Table work is essential in the rehearsal process – with any text – but especially with Shakespeare. And it means exactly what it says: rather than being up and moving around the rehearsal room, blocking and creating the scenes, we sit at the table, analyzing the text, asking questions, clarifying meaning, getting Darko’s take on things, as well as the take of the actors and the dramaturg and yours truly. I love table work. I learn a lot. We all learn a lot.

Then I go from there and work with each actor individually – sometimes for several sessions – and work through the script with them. More on that later. As Romeo and Juliet have huge chunks of text to work through, I’m starting with them.

I got home last night around 7:30, made a quick meal, talked to Don, ran a bath, and went to bed. I have to get into working mode again, which is very different than the normal rhythms of our life at the cottage. It takes me a few days or more to get back into it and I always find I’m exhausted at the end of each day.

It’s fun to be reunited with at least four actors I’ve worked with several times before, three of them from my Old Globe days. Lovely. One of them has known Don since he was about 19, they are longtime friends. And I’ve known her about 25 years. Oh my!

Happy Wednesday.

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