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Gathering in NYC

November 13, 2016 at 10:01 am by Claudia

I had planned on telling the horse story today, thinking that it was time to write about something inspiring, but there were so may requests for details on yesterday’s protest in NYC that it became clear that I should share a few photos from the day. A day that was also inspiring. (I took some and Don took a whole heck of a lot more, because he loves doing that and my phone’s battery was losing its charge.) By the way, he missed his calling. He should be a photojournalist because he has such a great eye. Extraordinary pictures.

We took the train into NY because the train arrives at Grand Central, where we could take the subway directly to Union Square, the staging area. Union Square is on 14th Street. We gathered under a statue of Abraham Lincoln.

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As we stood there, more and more and more people arrived. News cameras were everywhere. We started the first of many, many conversations with fellow marchers – conversations that would continue throughout the day.

One woman touched our hearts.  She was elderly, very petite, and wearing purple, including a purple beret. As we started to talk to her, she started crying. She was born in France, you see. Her parents lived through the horrors of World War II. She was a very small child during the war. This election and the rhetoric being spewed, she said, reminded her of that time. She was so lovely. She told us that she has four children who live all over the world and they are also protesting. We took pictures of her and emailed them to her last night after we got home.

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I don’t want to show you her face because I didn’t ask permission. But there she is, walking just ahead of us. She was my inspiration yesterday, as was my nephew. (That’s the Empire State Building on the left.)

Around 1:30, we made the turn onto Fifth Avenue and 17th Street and we began the march up Fifth Avenue to our eventual destination: Trump Tower at 56th and Fifth Avenue. We were near the first column of marchers and we had no idea how many people were behind us. It wasn’t until we were around 48th Street or so, where there was a slight rise in the road, that we could look back and see the sea of people following us. Thousands and thousands. It took my breath away.

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The marchers stretched out for several blocks, as far as the eye could see.

The crowd was comprised of every age; from the elderly walking with canes, to toddlers being pushed in strollers. Every ethnicity. Every sexual orientation. We wore safety pins that had been passed out to us in Union Square. Everyone was polite, gregarious, and focused.

Someone implied yesterday in the comments that the marchers would be limited to the young. That they would use bad language. Basically, a lot of assumptions based on…what? I don’t know. That couldn’t have been further from the truth. I was surrounded by all ages; everyone kind, everyone passionate, everyone – to a person – lovely and friendly. Love was everywhere. That only the young feel passionately enough about issues to march is ridiculous. Or that there is some sort of unspoken ‘you don’t belong here’ coming from them? – completely ridiculous. I cannot tell you how many conversations I had with people of all ages. It was inspiring.

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And there was Michael Moore. He had either just done his Facebook Live or was about to do it. We didn’t know about that at the time because we were marching. But I found out about it when I got home. A Michigander, I might add, so I’m doubly proud of him.

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If you are worried that millennials aren’t engaged enough in the election and the political process, let me assure you, they are. I was heartened and encouraged by their passion and I saw it everywhere yesterday. They will make their mark in the future. They’re starting now.

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All in all, we walked about 40 blocks until we arrived at the intersection of 56th and Fifth. That tall building is Trump Tower. Believe me, we were heard. I could see workers in the luxury stores on Fifth Avenue standing at the window and applauding us. Double decker tour buses full of tourists cheered us. It was inspiring. People were stopped along the sidewalks taking pictures and applauding.

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The march was peaceful. It had been organized as a peaceful march and everyone respected that. I never felt unsafe. Not for a minute. In fact, it was a community, a community gathered together to make their voices heard. One of the chants yesterday: “This is what democracy looks like.”

The police were polite and professional and we thanked them for their service whenever we had the opportunity.

It was the most inspiring day. We were also exhausted at the end of the day! But it was worth it. We edged our way out of the crowd around 4:00 because we were lucky to be where right at the intersection of 56th and Fifth and thought more marchers should get a chance to see what was happening there. We walked back down Fifth Avenue so we could witness the size of the crowd.

Wow.

Then we found our way back to Grand Central Station and headed for the train.

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That’s me.

When I arrived home I learned that a family member of a close friend of mine was subject to a hate crime yesterday. And I heard the anguish and fear in my friend’s voice on social media.

So I’ll continue to march and, more importantly, take action.

That was my day yesterday. Thanks to Don for urging me to get off my butt yesterday morning and go to Manhattan. I was the one who originally told him about it, but I was tired and not awake and I needed his energy to get me going. It was worth it.

Tomorrow: The horse story. It will leave you feeling good about those who protect and help our animal friends.

Happy Sunday.

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Filed Under: Don, New York City, presidential election, what I believe 94 Comments

What? It’s Only October and Other News

October 28, 2016 at 9:10 am by Claudia

Hello again! It’s me, emerging from a day off, of sorts. A day in which my husband wrote an insightful post and all I had to do was hit ‘publish.’ By the way, he is taking his time with his responses to your comments, and very much enjoying the process. I think he’s about halfway through. He’ll finish up today.

Of course, in the midst of my day off, I looked out the window of my office/studio and did the proverbial double take. Then I shouted to Don to “Look out the window!!”

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I used Instagram as my posting medium yesterday. After all, Don had the blog all tied up (thank you, Don.) Anyway, look at this! I had no idea it was coming so I was completely and utterly shocked.

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We’ve certainly had surprise snow events in October before. I wasn’t ready for this one, though, especially since I had just taken these photos the day before:

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Some phlox still blooming in the big garden bed.

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Roses still in bloom.

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And one lone coneflower, still hanging on to its petals.

Whether these little gems have remained in this state is yet to be determined. I’ll have to investigate later today. The snow eventually turned to sleet, which then turned to rain and it rained for the rest of the day and all night long. We need it, of course. But it was a messy, strange-weather day.

A couple of interesting bits of news:

• There is an article in this month’s AARP magazine written by Louise Penny; a first-person account of becoming the caregiver for her late husband Michael as he slowly succumbed to dementia. The title is “The Last Promise” and, as you might suspect, it’s beautifully written. I had tears in my eyes.

Thanks to my readers who tipped me off about the piece. We get the magazine but I never read it. (Maybe I’m in denial!) But as soon as it arrived in my mailbox on Wednesday, I searched for the article and I’ve since torn it out to save.

• When I wrote about Flea Market Style  magazine the other day, Shanna said that she’d heard it was going to be published again. I was skeptical, as last year there was a reprint of an old issue that appeared on the stands, so I suspected the same thing might be happening.

But then I heard from both Olivia and Debbie that no, it wasn’t a reprint, the magazine is starting up again and the first issue will be on the stands on November 15th! Huzzah! I’m thrilled. I’ll most likely get it at my bookstore, but there are pre-orders available on this site, Margo’s Junkin Journal. It’s being spearheaded by Ki Nassauer and Celeste Shaw (who I got to meet in NYC a few years back.)

Sigh of happiness.

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I knew it was going to go down to 29 degrees on Wednesday night, so I went outside to clip some more limelight hydrangeas. I brought them inside and walked around the house, looking for some sort of vessel to put them in other than a standard vase. Downstairs? Nothing. Upstairs? Wait a minute. What about Scoutie’s water dish? Yes. (I planted succulents in one of Riley’s dishes. It’s on the kitchen table.)

So here it is. It makes us happy, seeing beautiful flowers in Scout’s dish. I miss her a lot. Lately, I seem to be overwhelmed by how much I miss her. What I wouldn’t give to have her in my ‘tunnel’ again. She was the best company, the best girl ever. Add to that the fact that a year ago today I was making a last minute plane reservation to rush to my dad’s bedside, and I think you’ll understand some of my melancholy. I’ll write about Dad tomorrow, on the anniversary of his death.

One more night of freezing temps and I can take the porch plants back outside.

Happy Friday.

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Filed Under: Dad, Don, flowers, Scout, snow 38 Comments

Don Writes: A Long Look in the Mirror

October 27, 2016 at 8:06 am by Claudia

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True Story:

A good friend of mine, now 75, was once a proud member of John F. Kennedy’s Army Airborne; a band of brothers and paratroopers in one of the elite divisions of what was known as “Charlie Company.” They had recently paraded in front of the President in a review of military precision, with starched, shined, and uniform patriotic and aggressive marching bordering on a goose step. And JFK had saluted and waved back, with a smile and a tanned face still embedded in my friend’s fading memory.

He returned to the U.S. from the carnage of Viet Nam with images of brothers killed in action and a haunting concern and loyalty for those still over there.

He was trying to re-enter life and find the person he was who’d been left stateside. He started looking for himself and figured he’d try every bar and dive along the Hudson River until that guy turned up.

It was in a bar such as this one night when he and some fellow Vets came across some scruffy protester types, tie-dyed and shaggy and equally three sheets to the wind. Words were overheard, and not liking what he heard, my friend steamed across the bar and with a firm right-cross sent a stool-perched peace-nut to the peanut-shell-covered bar floor below.

Someone then ran over to my friend, who was still swaggering tall above the thin, crumpled figure, and said breathlessly,

“Don’t you know who you just punched??!”

“Who”

“Man, that’s Bob Dylan.”

And so it was.

My friend, who’d been off bivouacking in the cool and inviting breezes that were the jungles of Viet Nam in the summer, and not privy or particularly interested in the latest musical trends, replied:

“Who’s Bob Dylan?”

Now, I don’t approve of violence, nor do I bear any malice toward the legendary folk singer (I’m a fan), but I must guiltily admit I think it’s a little cool to have a friend who sucker-punched Bob Dylan. It’s just that, well, it is  a singular event to hear of firsthand. Besides, it was a long, long time ago. And Bob has done alright by himself. He might even tell my friend if they ever meet and my friend should apologize, “Don’t think twice. It’s alright.”

Or not.

But you couldn’t take a real-life event and find a more perfect metaphor for the ever-evolving American male image: John Wayne mano a mano with the Prince of Protest.

After hearing Hillary Clinton say recently, “America now has to decide what kind of country we want to be” (or words to that effect) and after the braying, macho Trumpery of The Donald, it might be a good time for men to ask themselves, “What kind of men  do we want to be?”

Which has some of my male-type friends taking a long look in the mirror and wondering what they see. Or want to see. Or should see.

What does it mean to be a man? I thought this was cleared up long ago in the unlikely person of the actor, Alan Alda.

In the book Men & Masculinities: A Social, Cultural, and Historial Encyclopedia, Michael Kimmel and Amy Aronson write:

Alda symbolized a charming, certainly milder alternative to the “Raging Bull” and “Rockys” of the world – a romantic lead whose masculinity was predicated on sensitivity, intelligence, and roguish wit as opposed to testosterone-fueled aggression, machismo, and intimidating physical prowess.”

Hmmm…

“…testosterone-fueled aggression, machismo, and intimidating physical prowess.” Sounds a little like a rally I’ve seen on TV lately.

Is that  what a man does? What a man is?

Or is it strength with gentleness? Power with compassion? Conviction with an open mind? Confidence with humility?

What does it even mean : Being a good man? Being a strong man?

That’s what a few of us would like to know.

Maybe, just maybe, this post could be helpful for all of us.

So…

What do you  think? We’d like to know.

And yes, I will read and reply to your comments.

And maybe learn something.

If I’m man enough to try.

 

Closing à la Claudia:
Happy Thursday.

Don

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