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What? It’s Only October and Other News

October 28, 2016 at 9:10 am by Claudia

Hello again! It’s me, emerging from a day off, of sorts. A day in which my husband wrote an insightful post and all I had to do was hit ‘publish.’ By the way, he is taking his time with his responses to your comments, and very much enjoying the process. I think he’s about halfway through. He’ll finish up today.

Of course, in the midst of my day off, I looked out the window of my office/studio and did the proverbial double take. Then I shouted to Don to “Look out the window!!”

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I used Instagram as my posting medium yesterday. After all, Don had the blog all tied up (thank you, Don.) Anyway, look at this! I had no idea it was coming so I was completely and utterly shocked.

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We’ve certainly had surprise snow events in October before. I wasn’t ready for this one, though, especially since I had just taken these photos the day before:

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Some phlox still blooming in the big garden bed.

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Roses still in bloom.

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And one lone coneflower, still hanging on to its petals.

Whether these little gems have remained in this state is yet to be determined. I’ll have to investigate later today. The snow eventually turned to sleet, which then turned to rain and it rained for the rest of the day and all night long. We need it, of course. But it was a messy, strange-weather day.

A couple of interesting bits of news:

• There is an article in this month’s AARP magazine written by Louise Penny; a first-person account of becoming the caregiver for her late husband Michael as he slowly succumbed to dementia. The title is “The Last Promise” and, as you might suspect, it’s beautifully written. I had tears in my eyes.

Thanks to my readers who tipped me off about the piece. We get the magazine but I never read it. (Maybe I’m in denial!) But as soon as it arrived in my mailbox on Wednesday, I searched for the article and I’ve since torn it out to save.

• When I wrote about Flea Market Style  magazine the other day, Shanna said that she’d heard it was going to be published again. I was skeptical, as last year there was a reprint of an old issue that appeared on the stands, so I suspected the same thing might be happening.

But then I heard from both Olivia and Debbie that no, it wasn’t a reprint, the magazine is starting up again and the first issue will be on the stands on November 15th! Huzzah! I’m thrilled. I’ll most likely get it at my bookstore, but there are pre-orders available on this site, Margo’s Junkin Journal. It’s being spearheaded by Ki Nassauer and Celeste Shaw (who I got to meet in NYC a few years back.)

Sigh of happiness.

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I knew it was going to go down to 29 degrees on Wednesday night, so I went outside to clip some more limelight hydrangeas. I brought them inside and walked around the house, looking for some sort of vessel to put them in other than a standard vase. Downstairs? Nothing. Upstairs? Wait a minute. What about Scoutie’s water dish? Yes. (I planted succulents in one of Riley’s dishes. It’s on the kitchen table.)

So here it is. It makes us happy, seeing beautiful flowers in Scout’s dish. I miss her a lot. Lately, I seem to be overwhelmed by how much I miss her. What I wouldn’t give to have her in my ‘tunnel’ again. She was the best company, the best girl ever. Add to that the fact that a year ago today I was making a last minute plane reservation to rush to my dad’s bedside, and I think you’ll understand some of my melancholy. I’ll write about Dad tomorrow, on the anniversary of his death.

One more night of freezing temps and I can take the porch plants back outside.

Happy Friday.

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Filed Under: Dad, Don, flowers, Scout, snow 38 Comments

Don Writes: A Long Look in the Mirror

October 27, 2016 at 8:06 am by Claudia

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True Story:

A good friend of mine, now 75, was once a proud member of John F. Kennedy’s Army Airborne; a band of brothers and paratroopers in one of the elite divisions of what was known as “Charlie Company.” They had recently paraded in front of the President in a review of military precision, with starched, shined, and uniform patriotic and aggressive marching bordering on a goose step. And JFK had saluted and waved back, with a smile and a tanned face still embedded in my friend’s fading memory.

He returned to the U.S. from the carnage of Viet Nam with images of brothers killed in action and a haunting concern and loyalty for those still over there.

He was trying to re-enter life and find the person he was who’d been left stateside. He started looking for himself and figured he’d try every bar and dive along the Hudson River until that guy turned up.

It was in a bar such as this one night when he and some fellow Vets came across some scruffy protester types, tie-dyed and shaggy and equally three sheets to the wind. Words were overheard, and not liking what he heard, my friend steamed across the bar and with a firm right-cross sent a stool-perched peace-nut to the peanut-shell-covered bar floor below.

Someone then ran over to my friend, who was still swaggering tall above the thin, crumpled figure, and said breathlessly,

“Don’t you know who you just punched??!”

“Who”

“Man, that’s Bob Dylan.”

And so it was.

My friend, who’d been off bivouacking in the cool and inviting breezes that were the jungles of Viet Nam in the summer, and not privy or particularly interested in the latest musical trends, replied:

“Who’s Bob Dylan?”

Now, I don’t approve of violence, nor do I bear any malice toward the legendary folk singer (I’m a fan), but I must guiltily admit I think it’s a little cool to have a friend who sucker-punched Bob Dylan. It’s just that, well, it is  a singular event to hear of firsthand. Besides, it was a long, long time ago. And Bob has done alright by himself. He might even tell my friend if they ever meet and my friend should apologize, “Don’t think twice. It’s alright.”

Or not.

But you couldn’t take a real-life event and find a more perfect metaphor for the ever-evolving American male image: John Wayne mano a mano with the Prince of Protest.

After hearing Hillary Clinton say recently, “America now has to decide what kind of country we want to be” (or words to that effect) and after the braying, macho Trumpery of The Donald, it might be a good time for men to ask themselves, “What kind of men  do we want to be?”

Which has some of my male-type friends taking a long look in the mirror and wondering what they see. Or want to see. Or should see.

What does it mean to be a man? I thought this was cleared up long ago in the unlikely person of the actor, Alan Alda.

In the book Men & Masculinities: A Social, Cultural, and Historial Encyclopedia, Michael Kimmel and Amy Aronson write:

Alda symbolized a charming, certainly milder alternative to the “Raging Bull” and “Rockys” of the world – a romantic lead whose masculinity was predicated on sensitivity, intelligence, and roguish wit as opposed to testosterone-fueled aggression, machismo, and intimidating physical prowess.”

Hmmm…

“…testosterone-fueled aggression, machismo, and intimidating physical prowess.” Sounds a little like a rally I’ve seen on TV lately.

Is that  what a man does? What a man is?

Or is it strength with gentleness? Power with compassion? Conviction with an open mind? Confidence with humility?

What does it even mean : Being a good man? Being a strong man?

That’s what a few of us would like to know.

Maybe, just maybe, this post could be helpful for all of us.

So…

What do you  think? We’d like to know.

And yes, I will read and reply to your comments.

And maybe learn something.

If I’m man enough to try.

 

Closing à la Claudia:
Happy Thursday.

Don

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Wood and Strings: The Luthier’s Showcase

October 23, 2016 at 11:02 am by Claudia

Yesterday, we went to the Woodstock Invitational Luthiers Showcase and it was simply incredible. This is a yearly event in which luthiers (makers of handmade guitars, mandolins, banjos, dulcimers and fiddles) can showcase their creations. There are also performances on the stage all day long, with musicians playing the instruments so the audience can hear how they sound. Along with that, there are workshops by renowned musicians.

It was held in three different buildings in Bearsville, which is really part of Woodstock. It’s a historic area (Don has played there before) where musicians have played for years, including Bob Dylan and Levon Helm. The building next door was the house of legendary manager and producer Albert Grossman. The Bearsville Theater, which was the main venue for this showcase, was Grossman’s idea, finally opened after years of construction by Grossman’s widow. Grossman, by the way, was a visionary, with a stable of artists that included Dylan, Peter, Paul & Mary, Janis Joplin, The Band, and Todd Rundgren. In fact, the other building – Utopia – was originally Rundgren’s video studio.

That’s some of the history surrounding this complex of buildings.

Here are some photos:

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The rainy road to Woodstock.

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Right inside the entrance.

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This is a guitar made by Rodrigo Shopis, who lives in NYC. He is inspired by the music and guitars of the legendary Django Reinhart.

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Rodrigo and yours truly.

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Don playing a guitar made by Rick of Running Dog Guitars, based in Seattle. I fell in love with these beauties and we had the opportunity to listen to a demonstration of their beautiful sound later in the day.

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I’m sure you understand why I fell in love with this one. If I could have this, I’d take up the guitar – I promise!

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Lame Horse guitars – a father/son enterprise (Chris and Jeremiah Jenkins) out of Austin and Dallas. Jeremiah has a pin on his lapel that is almost exactly the same as a vintage pin I own.

We bonded, of course.

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I particularly loved the handmade guitars of Sam Guidry, who lives in Michigan. Of course, I’m more drawn to the artistic embellishments. Don, while appreciating all of that, is also drawn to the sound and how it feels to play each instrument. This guitar had this lovely design around the hole.

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Same guitar, sides and back. Gorgeous.

Sam also made my favorite of the day:

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This one, inspired by the designs of Frank Lloyd Wright. The back of the guitar, though I don’t seem to have a photo of it, subtly repeated the design.

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Don and Sam.

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Don absolutely loved playing this guitar, made by Benoît Lavoie, who lives and works in Quebec. Ben was passionate about his work and such fun to talk to.

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Don holding the guitar right after playing it. He looks happy, doesn’t he?

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He also loved this guitar made by Nick Lenski of Brier Road Guitars in North Adams, MA.

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Check out the back of the guitar. I can’t believe how beautiful these instruments are!

And finally, I fell in love with the work of Zach Lefebvre of TreeHouse Guitars in Ontario, Canada.

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The bird, the branches, all done by Zach.

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And on the back. Be still my heart. Really…I’ll learn to play! Please, pretty please?

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Don and Zach.

This is a three-day event, and I can see why. It’s truly amazing and full of such incredible talent and artistry. Don had long conversations with so many of the artisans, often trying our their guitars.

I checked in with him this morning. His favorite: the one made by Benoît. Next favorite: the one made by Nick.

Of course, these guitars take time to make. Everything is handmade by each individual artisan. So they often cost several thousand dollars. Gulp. But it’s all relative. So does a good piano. And if you’re a musician and you fall in love with a guitar, one that no one else will have, made just for you? You find a way to make that dream come true.

I really loved the show and we will definitely be going next year, as well.

And hurrah for the Cubs! Watching that game was a great way to end the day!

Happy Sunday.

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