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The End of a Bizarre Week

April 2, 2016 at 9:26 am by Claudia

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As is.

The end of a long day; heck, a long week.

Very strange happenings around MHC this past week, most of them to do with Don’s ankle/leg. We took two trail walks last weekend and at the beginning of each of them, Don had to loosen the ties on his sneakers because his inner ankle was tender. He thought it strange, but really didn’t think about it all that much.

By late Sunday night, after I had gone to bed, Don’s ankle was swollen and an area of skin above the joint and on the leg was very red. He couldn’t put any weight on his foot.

On Monday morning, Don told me what was happening and we assumed it must be some sort of sprain, so we started keeping it elevated and icing it off and on. But Don was sort of bewildered by the whole thing, as he had no memory of anything happening to that ankle.

By Wednesday, it was even redder and there was some bruising under the ankle and it hurt a lot, so we went to our local urgent care facility as Don’s doctor was out of town. The doctor at urgent care, not especially skilled in bedside manner, told Don he couldn’t say exactly what it was – it was either a sprain or a skin infection. They gave him a splint, ace bandages and crutches, as well as strong antibiotics and prescription strength ibuprofen. We got the prescriptions filled and went back to elevating, etc.

Later in the day, when Don was looking at the discharge papers, the doctor had entered ‘cellulitis’ in his notes as the diagnosis. This puzzled us, because cellulitis is very serious and the doctor had hedged about any sort of diagnosis during the appointment.

We were in strange and uncertain territory. At this point, we very much doubted it was a sprain, as the redness that extended about 5 inches up his leg was clearly some sort of inflammation and, as veterans of sprained ankles, we knew that if it had been a sprain, that area would have eventually become a bruise and it didn’t. On Mere’s advice, we started to mark how high the redness went on the leg with a permanent marker. Cellulitis, apparently, can lead to a blood infection if not monitored. Not good. A couple of people warned us about the seriousness of it all.

But was it cellulitis?

We tried to get hold of the doctor from the urgent care facility for some sort of clarification. No return call. Then we spent the next 24 hours or so wondering if we should go to Emergency, constantly monitoring the inflammation.

Side note: we have a large deductible on our health insurance, Don is about 3 months away from getting Medicare, and we knew that the cost of a visit to Emergency, as well as all the doctor’s visits, would come out of our pocket. So we were hesitant to go to ER if it wasn’t necessary.

Don called urgent care again yesterday morning and asked to have the doctor call us. When the doctor finally called us back yesterday afternoon, he was defensive about the diagnosis he gave in the examining room vs. the diagnosis on the discharge papers and was basically a jerk (my words, not Don’s) but he did two good things: he prescribed that antibiotic on Wednesday and he gave us the name of a local podiatrist, who, bless him, squeezed us in late yesterday afternoon.

This doctor was great, so helpful and reassuring. He took his time and listened to both of us. He asked questions. And in the end he said, yes, it’s cellulitis. No, we don’t need the splint or the crutches or the ace bandages. Yes, Don will be okay, it just might take a few more days. If it gets worse, go to Emergency. But, the antibiotics should take care of it. His advice to Don: relax, elevate your leg and come back next Tuesday.

Here’s the thing; it was the not knowing that stressed us out. Were the antibiotics the right choice for whatever unknown ailment he had? Were we doing the right thing? Should we have immediately gone to ER? Would it worsen? What the heck was  it?

By the time we got home yesterday, we were relieved and exhausted. I’ve been taking care of Don ever since this happened. Don’s been worried and in pain. Now, at least, we know.

We have no idea what caused it. Maybe a bite? But we can’t see any sign of a bite. That part remains a mystery.

So the above photo shows the status of the den after we got home. My socks are on the table (it was unseasonably warm and humid yesterday,) there’s an empty cereal bowl because I had to have some Raisin Bran which is comfort food, there’s a guide from our Health Care provider that I was studying when we were trying to determine our options, and the laptop is open for some mindless blog reading, which was about the only thing I could do at the end of the day.

Whew. Now I have to get back to my research, which had to be put on the back burner while all this was going on.

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I didn’t even do any coloring for the past two days.

This morning, Don’s leg looks a bit better. We can finally see an improvement. Thank goodness.

Now, we’re headed into more bizarre weather. It was over 70 degrees yesterday. The high tomorrow will be 38 with rain/snow and, you guessed it, high winds. (I am so sick of wind.) Monday? 1-3 inches of snow. It won’t last, but the very thought of it makes me want to scream. Rain and snow showers off and on throughout the week, including the day I drive to Hartford for a rehearsal.

Oy.

Now I’m going to celebrate Don’s improvement by making some French Toast. His request.

Happy Saturday.

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Checking in on the Garden

March 31, 2016 at 8:22 am by Claudia

Oh Spring, you are wonderful. However, the havoc you wreak on my allergies is not  wonderful. I’m not a happy camper.

This is the time of year in the Northeast when every gardener checks the garden beds once or twice a day to see what is emerging after the long winter. I am no different; I walk outside and peek under leaves, each new green shoot duly noted in the unofficial garden notebook that is floating around in my head.

It’s only March 31st – too early for this gardener to remove all the leaves that are currently covering each bed. Especially since I saw, to my horror, that we might get 3 inches of snow on Monday/Tuesday.

What? Ever hopeful, I am trusting that the forecast will change.

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Trustworthy Sedum Autumn Joy, planted here before we took up residence.

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Leaves are emerging on all the rose bushes. Last year at this time, there was nothing, which led me to worry that the brutal winter had killed them off. Do you remember that the tulip and hyacinth never really appeared last spring? Well, the hyacinth leaves  appeared – with absolutely no flowers. This year, I see one tulip leaf already emerging from the ground, as well as healthy looking hyacinth leaves.

Thank goodness for the relatively sane winter we just went through. Oh – did you know that Don never used the snow blower this year? Not once.

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Lilac check-in: I see baby flowers!

The truth is, I am longing to get out there and do some massive garden clean-up. I have to stop and remind myself that it is too darned early. There are certainly other areas of the yard that need some work and I think I’ll start in on that when I’m taking a break from research for Anastasia and taking care of Don, who has something wrong with his ankle. We ended up going to our local urgent care yesterday to get X-rays. No break. It’s all rather strange – the doctor said it’s either a sprain or a skin infection. Since Don doesn’t remember doing anything to the ankle, we’re wondering whether it’s the latter. He is now on antibiotics, is wearing a splint and has crutches.

What’s with the Hill/Sparks clan and their ankles?

Needless to say, it’s been my turn to wait on Don and take care of him. Meals aren’t nearly as exciting as they are when Don is cooking. But he’s getting fed, I promise.

The whole thing is very frustrating and a bit mysterious and we are – officially – over the whole ankle thing.

Don’t forget to leave a comment on yesterday’s book review if you’re interested in a chance to win a copy of the book. You have until tomorrow evening.

Happy Thursday.

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The Need for Meditative Activity

March 28, 2016 at 9:17 am by Claudia

Easter was rather blue for me. Holidays are always tough following the loss of loved ones, aren’t they? I kept thinking of Scout wearing her bunny ears and that memory brought sadness. In an effort to cheer myself up, I made French Toast.

Later in the day, Don brought me tulips.

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They’re beautiful. They definitely added some cheer to my day. Thank you, husband.

I finished up all my crocheted scarf commitments. I finished one book and started another: Beach Music  by Pat Conroy. By the way, RIP to author Jim Harrison, who died yesterday at the age of 78. I read several of his books many years ago, drawn by the fact that he was Michigan born and bred. In his early books, he wrote of the Upper Peninsula of my home state. He was often compared to Hemingway, but I’ve always thought Harrison to be the better writer. I haven’t read his books in a long, long time, but I happen to have an eGalley of one of his latest books on my Kindle. It’s yet to be read, but it will be.

Thank you for all your helpful tips on coloring! I made of list of sharpeners, liners, colored pencils, artists, etc., and I’m very grateful for your input. I made another trip to a local art supply store – we live next to a college town, so we are blessed with two such shops.

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I found this funky little sharpener which seems to be much kinder to my pencils than anything I had on hand. Nevertheless, I’ve ordered two sharpeners that were recommended by my knowledgeable readers: one by Staedtler, the other by Prismacolor.

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I found these pencils made in England by Derwent. I really like them.

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I already had these on hand, but they’re not the fineliners.

As I walked in the door of one of the shops, my eye immediately lighted on this:

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Of course I snapped it up.

Coloring books for grown-ups are very, very popular right now. I tend to avoid the latest craze, but in this case, I’m very glad I didn’t. There’s a reason that this activity has latched on to a  population that is exposed to a constant barrage of phones, televisions, computers, frightening headlines in the news, an election that has devolved into childish tantrums and bullying, and all sorts of daily stress.

Everyone needs some sort of respite, some sort of activity that takes them away from the stress of any given day. For me, crochet, reading, writing, working on my dollhouse, walking, even the rhythm of vacuuming can do that. For others, it’s woodworking or hiking or knitting or painting or rearranging furniture or exercise. We need an escape. We also need something that is meditative.

I heard from a couple of people who absolutely could not either understand the worth of this activity or didn’t like the restrictiveness of it. I understand it’s not for everyone and I respect your point-of-view. But when I tell you that it helps me, someone who has suffered through several years of stress and worry and loss, surely you can understand why I find it worthy of my time. It has nothing to do with coloring within the lines or restricting my creativity – I’ve never lacked for creative expression – it has everything to do with finding a modicum of peace.

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Nothing fancy, no shading yet, just playing with color and spending an hour or two coloring in this wonderful book. Don is coloring in a neat book about New York City.

It brings a bit of calm and peace to our days, so why not?

Happy Monday.

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