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Thoughts on Walking the Blogging Tightrope

July 11, 2015 at 9:27 am by Claudia

7-11 crown vetch in bloom

I’m rambling a bit this morning.

Every once in a while, I find myself observing my blogging experience from a dispassionate distance. Invariably, this thought occurs: “What the hell am I doing, sharing all this information with people all over the world?”

Because, if you stop for a moment and think about it, that realization can be alarming. When this happens, I often have another thought almost simultaneously: “I’ll just stop blogging and delete everything.”

Obviously, I don’t act on that thought. But who knows? I might, someday.

Don and I were talking about blogging the other day; about what I choose to share with my readers and what I keep private for whatever reason. Every blogger wrestles with this kind of decision and every blogger has a different comfort level as to what makes the cut.

I’ve always aimed for honesty on this blog. I think that you have a pretty good idea of who I am. I hope, in turn, that I’ve been honest enough in my writing to indicate that I’m not perfect. I have my moments of insanity. So does Don. Sometimes I share them with you; often, I don’t. I don’t necessarily want to share my middle-of-the-night worries with you. I don’t share the daily stresses of our life, though we have them. We have a very, very good marriage, Don and I, but it’s not always choirs singing and rose petals covering every surface.

7-11 scaevola

In other words, we are good, but flawed, people trying to be even better people.

All bloggers, if they are truly honest about this process, will tell you that they present an edited version of themselves to their readers. Because who wants to read everything? Who wants to read a steady stream of negativity and worries and complaints? I sure don’t. That doesn’t mean I read blogs to escape – I don’t. I like to get a sense of the blogger behind the words.

The balancing act comes from walking the tightrope of what to share and what to keep private, when to be positive and when to share fears and challenges. It’s tricky, that tightrope.

7-11 yarrow

Overall, I think I handle that challenge fairly well. The truth is, I’m basically a positive person who finds humor and beauty in my daily life, though there are the occasional dark moments. What you read on a daily basis on this blog is a pretty good indicator of my frame of mind. You don’t need to hear about all of my worries. You don’t need to hear about trying to make the mortgage payment every month or constantly hear about the ups and downs of working on freelance basis in the Performing Arts. Occasionally. But rarely.

After all, those challenges are also our choices.

You also don’t need to hear about my daily worries about Scout and the ups and downs of her life at the age of 16. Only occasionally. I learned about that the hard way when I shared a lot about Riley’s struggles and a reader left a mean-spirited, very long and very judgmental comment in which she decided she should be the one to tell me it was time to end his life. She, apparently, felt she knew best. When I kindly but firmly told her she had overstepped, she went off in a huff. Good riddance.

Because, you see, sharing with readers also means that you’ll have the occasional insane comment. Inviting readers into your blog home means that you run the risk of encountering an ass or two. That’s okay, I guess. On the whole, I have encountered that sort of thing rarely. My readers are pretty classy and wonderfully supportive, if I do say so myself!

But just as in real life, you learn the hard way what to share and what to keep close to the chest. I’ve had the occasional encounter with a supposed ‘friend’ who decided to blab about things I had shared in confidence – who took that information and twisted it, using it against me. That sort of thing always gets back to you. The consequence? You’re more careful about what you share and who you share it with.

I suspect we’ve all been there, at one time or another.

In my seven years of blogging, I think I’ve firmly established my sharing-comfort-level. I’ll always be honest with you, dear readers, but I won’t share everything!

Believe me, you should experience a sense of relief after reading that statement.

The tightrope is tricky. But I won’t be getting off any time soon.

By the way, nothing has happened to spur this post. Just thoughts based on my talk with Don – a talk that made me think about this crazy, but wonderful, blogging existence.

(Photos: top, crown vetch in bloom; middle, scaevola; bottom, yarrow.)

New post up on Just Let Me Finish This Page – hint: my thoughts on the publication of Go Set A Watchman.

Happy Saturday.

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Dollhouse: Up On The Roof

July 10, 2015 at 8:10 am by Claudia

The roof garden. What would the surface look like?

I’ve long had the idea percolating in my brain of using some sort of crushed stone, rather like pea gravel. My first thought was to use aquarium gravel and I bought some, thinking I would put it in a bag and crush it into tiny pieces with a hammer.

It wouldn’t crush. Entirely uncrushable.

Then, on a dollhouse site, I came across Ballast  which came packaged in a little bag. I bookmarked the site and finally ordered some while I was in Chautauqua. But the mix of grey colors I preferred was out of stock, so I tried a medium gray. When it arrived the other day, I realized it wouldn’t work. It was all the same color. At the same time, I remembered that ballast was exactly what my dad used along the tracks of his model railroad. (FYI: He had an extensive model railroad at one time that extended throughout the basement. I guess the miniaturist apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.)

Bingo. I googled model trains and ballast. And there was the mix of gray I wanted – in a shaker, no less! I ordered it and it arrived a day later. I got it from Train Sets Only – great customer service, very fast shipping.

7-10 DH ballast shaker

There’s more here than I’ll ever need. Unless we build a model railroad.

Yesterday, I cut some heavy duty paper to fit the open space on the roof and covered it with glue. Then I started shaking. The ballast, that is.

Oh man. What a pain it was. I started this project in the kitchen and, after inadvertently shaking a lot of it on the floor, I decided I’d better take it outside. When I was finally finished, I glued the ballast-covered paper to the roof of the dollhouse. Then I set it with hair spray. (I have to re-glue one area today as I see some of the paper didn’t stick.) I read a tutorial on all of this last year and I remember bookmarking it, but danged if I can find it! But I do remember the tutorial said it was better to glue the crushed rock onto a piece of paper, rather than directly onto the wood.

7-10 DH ballast close

There it is.

You know, sometimes when I’m doing this sort of thing, I panic a little. Am I ruining what I’ve already created? What if I don’t like it?

I experienced that feeling several times last night. Is it going to be too busy up there on the roof? Is it going to draw attention away from the dollhouse itself?

Then I remind myself that I can remove everything if I don’t like it.

7-10 DH ballast with planter

A sneak peek.

I don’t want all that furniture visible when looking at the front of the house, so I’m going to add some hedges along the wrought iron trim. They’ll be here in a couple of days.

Still a wee bit on the fence, but I think it’s going to work.

Some real flower photos for you:

7-10 daylilies

7-10 hydrangeasandconeflowers

The hydrangeas are huge this year. Big, fat, lush blossoms.

I’m about 2 weeks late on this, but the winner of a copy of Ruthless  is Linda! Congratulations!

Happy Friday.

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Flowers and Tweaks

July 9, 2015 at 9:13 am by Claudia

7-9 porch

My view as I sat on the glider yesterday morning, chatting with my husband. Oh boy, was it humid out there! The healthy, lush look of the impatiens and the scaevola are a testament to Don’s diligent attention to watering while I was away. I gave him a schedule and he kept to it. In fact, he asked me if he could continue watering the plants because he likes it.

Umm….an emphatic yes!

He also swept up debris and hosed down the bluestone floor of the porch late in the day yesterday.

What a guy.

The container plants on the patio are doing just fine. They need a little watering here and there, but basically, they thrive without much attention.

7-9 yarrow on trellis

The yarrow that self-seeded in the main garden bed a couple of years ago, was so top heavy that it had drooped down to the ground. So I got another one of the trellises from Lowe’s and tucked the yarrow into the openings. Much better. Love the height and graphic look it gives to the garden.

And the trellis is inexpensive and a good investment. I’ll use it again and again.

7-9 coneflowers

Coneflowers are about to open. I have them everywhere in the garden beds; easy maintenance, self-seeding, long-lasting. Last year (I guess I was bored that day) I counted the number of coneflowers and the final count was over 200. I imagine there will be even more this year.

I’ve done a little tweaking on the dollhouse.

Don once mentioned that I didn’t have enough artwork hanging on the walls of the bedroom. He’s got an eye, that one. I filed that observation away and recently took steps to remedy the situation.

7-9 bedroom 2

I bought this framed Van Gogh print, “Starry Night #2 – Rhone River.” Caroline and I both love Van Gogh and the gold frame nicely echoes the metallic frame on the mirror. You’ll also see the silver double frame I bought in Chautauqua in its new home on the dresser.

7-9 bedroom 1

I moved the smaller painting that had been on that wall over to its new position between the windows.

And I added one more new print:

7-9 toulouse lautrec

“Moulin Rouge” by Toulouse Lautrec.

7-9 chair and cushions

The cushions have been added to the wicker chair.

7-9 Boo

And someone is exploring his new home. Meet Boo. That was the name I had already picked out and then one of you – was it Nancy? – suggested that very same name in the comment section.

Ironically, I believe that’s one of Scout’s dog hairs to the right. (She’s already staked her claim on the dollhouse.)

Don got up before me (a very rare occurrence) and Scout is out on the porch with him. I miss that little scamp. We’ll have to make up for it with some tunnel time later in the day.

Happy Thursday.

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